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writes:I have been in a relationship for over 6 yrs, but for the past 12 mths it has been rocky, I have asked him to leave but he won't, he thinks.that we will get back to how we. were but I know we won't.I went out at the wkd and saw an ex, he told me that I was the one and that he still loves me, i've never really got over him, he was my first love, and I always have loved him. I'm so confused, what should I do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2012): your ex is an ex for a reason move on from them both
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reader, mystiquek  +, writes (20 February 2012):
 You've already answered your own question, you said you know that the two of you won't get back together. That statement pretty much says it all, doesn't it? You've already got one foot out the door, now you just need to take your boyfriend its really and truly over and be firm that you know its over. Perhaps its fear of the unknown, of possibly being alone, but why stay in a relationship that you know is dead? Cut your losses and make sure you really are over your boyfriend before you move on. Definitely be sure and don't go back and forth between the b/f and the ex, because then you really will get confused. If its over, then its over, end of story.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2012): It very much sounds as if it's over with the boyfriend. Go with your gut instinct here. Are you really going to pass up the chance to rekindle something with someone you once loved. No. A cautionary note: ex boyfriend thing may not work out but I think you owe it to yourself to see where things lead.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 February 2012):
 I think you need to follow your heart, life is to short, so if you are unhappy in your relationship at the moment then end it and see if anything happens with this ex. But don't pin all your hopes on to him just take it slow and see what happens. Good luck.
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