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writes:my boyfriend and i was broke up for 3 weeks i begged him to get back with me he said no he didn't want a relationship.Then i stopped talking to him ignored him and then he was the one who was wanting to be together again he said he loved me so much he was afraid to lose me. Since we got back together things have been different. we barely fight anymore we use to fight every day. he holds my hand in the car and anywhere we go. we kiss anywhere we are even in front of his friends. he tells me he loves all the time. on valentines day he spent most his money on me he got me a 40$ box of chocolate a card and rose and took me out to eat. yesterday we went to eat at sonic and we just stayed there for a while and hung out and talked and some how the word marriage came up. he said he wanted to get married to me one day...we went to the movies. i got a new job and he is supporting me on that. and here lately every since i got pregnant and had our daughter i have been very insecure of myself cause i don't have the body i use to before i got pregnant, he tells me i'm beautiful and sexy.when we got out of the movies he asked me if i wanted him to stay the night at my house or me stay at house i said it didnt matter and he said he would feel more comfortable at my house. he has never said that before i told him that if he didnt feel like driving to my house then we could stay at his house..idk why he said he would feel more comfortable at his house i guess maybe cause his room was really messy messier then it has ever been. he works on the weekends from 12pm to 6pm usually he hangs out with his friends this weekend he spent all his time with me... my friends say that he is being too nice and that is a sign of cheating is this true? they also said if he said he felt more comfortable at my house then his that is a sign he was worried the other person would come to his house while i was there. is he cheating?
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (20 February 2012):
 Gosh it really sounds like your friends are very negative, pessimistic people! Him being nice to you means he loves you and wants to make things up to you after treating you badly. It would be more obvious if he was cheating, there would be lots of messages on his phone that he would hide from you, he would be secretive about his phone, he would be unavailable a few nights a week and wouldnt give a great excuse where he is....being nice is not a sign of cheating!
He spent his whole weekend with you, when do you think he has had the chance to cheat?!
I would stop listening to your friends if I were you, they sound like they are trying to mess things up for you. Give your boyfriend the benefit of the doubt and trust him until there are some real signs that he might be cheating.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, landomando +, writes (20 February 2012):
wow...... thats a sign of cheating... "Too nice" I dont know where u are from but usually that means he loves you...You dont have a kid, you dont spend money on a girl you dont talk about marriage and being with her unless you love her.. How did u come up with cheating?? your friends are just jealous your soo happy. and you have a guy in your life that treats you like the princess you deserve to be treated as...
Seriously dont let that BS ruin your happiness. Its just going to start fights, trust will be broken, next thing u know u will be searching his room, his phone his computer. Dont listen to your "friends" thats so dum they just want to see you as miserable as they are.
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