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writes:Ok so I'm almost 17 and very shy person. I have the biggest crush on this guy from work who is like four years older than me. I have really talked to him, like have an actual conversation with him. I really don't know what to do. Everytime I see him or I'm around him I get really nervous. I can't help it but to stare at him and catch a glance every time he passes by me. And everytime I look at him he looks at me back straight in my eyes. OMG I really don't know what to do? Im not thee type of girl that flirts so,I have no idea what to do, Please help me???Thank you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2012): I'm 21 and I'm currently in a relationship with a 17 year old. We love each other very much and I would never dream of pushing her beyond her limits. If he likes you back, then by all means go for it. If not, he's not worth pursuing and you should find a guy who can satisfy your emotional needs. Talk to the guy and try to bring up the topic casually. But if you get the slightest feeling that he's may only use you for sex, stop right away. Good luck.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (20 February 2012):
 So you are 16 and he is 20...
and here in the USA that's illegal and he would go to jail.... not sure about the laws where you are however.
here's the thing... he may look at you and think you are too young... and that is his right... and maybe at this stage in your life accurate..
just be yourself... smile... be friends... nothing more...
at 16/20 it's a huge gap... at 18/22 it's much much better... you will be amazed what two years of growth emotionally will do for you.....
also once you are not "jailbait" if he does see you as a child or too young he may not any more.
I'm a huge supporter of age gaps and don't even consider that much of a gap... but at your age it's bigger than I like.... for a little bit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks the advice is some what helpful. But I want to know what I should do I don't know if he likes me back. Shouldd I go and tell how I feel or will that just push him away??IDK
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reader, dreamstar72 +, writes (20 February 2012):
There is no problems with the four year difference, but (I know U hate a but) hear me out. If he feels the same toward U go out have fun, talk, hang out, hold hands kiss (sorry but again) NO SEX! Here is why U R jailbait to him so if something happen (someone don't like) his whole life and future will be wrecked. When U get 18 U can go all the way If U 2 want. Good luck
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