Now that I have the chance to get back with my b/f something is holding me back!

A female age 36-40, *irly 2 writes:

I need help! See I was with this guy for about 4 years, we had a son but he treated me really bad. We both were just really immature about everything. Until one day i could not take it anymore, i called it off. I started seeing another guy and at first he was nice, but the thing i did not like about him was he never had any money. I could never get my ex out of my head, when i would have sex with my bf i would be thinking of my ex or i just did not want to do anything with him cuz i felt disgusted. Well i had a another baby with my bf. that is when the problems started. He started working and would buy me things here and there but he would not let me handle the money, i dont work cuz im still going to college, but he didnt even want to buy me car to get around. He would never help me with the baby, we got an apartment together since i was pregnant but my ex was always on my mind. I would even call him with out my bf knowing cuz i just had to talk to him, i just missed him so much. Well me and my bf got into a huge fight about money and him not helping me and he was just being mean with me all the time. He told me to get my things and leave his apartment, so i did. Now im talking to my ex and he wants us to get back. what should i do? I feel really confused because this is what i always wanted to go back with him but now that i have the chance something is holding me back. and i kinda miss my bf. please help someone, i dont know what to do.

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