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writes:Hi everyone,Ok, I am 16 and as far as doing anything with a boy goes, the only thing I have done is hug one. Now there's this guy and we both really like each-other, I think. He is getting a little impatient, we aren't dating or anything but he told me he wants to kiss me next time he sees me (which is very very soon) I feel sick every time I think about it because; like the film with Drew Barrymore, 'I've never been kissed' what the hell do I do??? So many people say 'oh you'll know when it happens, it just comes naturally' but that is about as comforting as, well, nothing really! I don't want to do tongues or anything like that yet, all my friends are already having sex and here I am 'oh how do you kiss a boy?' pathetic I know but my parents kept me under their very watchful eye. I want to kiss the guy but how, the only way I can see myself doing it is by getting drunk so I don't care if I suck at it but I'm not sure if I can have a drink every time I go to see him so please help meeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you xx
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reader, Abella  +, writes (18 February 2012):
 Nice feedback. It is always good to see such positive feedback
Best wishes for the future
regards
Abella
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you too all your responses, you have all allowed me to see my situation from a different angles and it was something I needed to see, thank you all :) xx
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (17 February 2012):
 if you really liked him THAT way you would want to kiss him...
you saying you need to be drunk to kiss him is upsetting for me...
1. i don't like that at such a young age you feel the need to rely on stimulants at all. the legal drinking age in the USA is 21 for a reason. young bodies do not need the added stress of alcohol.
if you are NOT dating this boy why is he getting IMPATIENT
why are you even considering kissing a boy you are not dating and not interested in that way?
so you are a late bloomer... and that's fine.
when the right person to kiss comes along you will know it.
the URGE to kiss the person becomes overwhelming....
I practiced hugging and kissing with pillows and even girlfriends when I was younger...
2. that you are so upset by the thought that you feel the need to consider always having to drink...
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reader, Abella +, writes (17 February 2012):
Becky has a lovely answer, in the form of an article on DearCupid.org and I think you might find it helpful
Here it is:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/kissing-a-how-to-guide.html
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reader, Shadow Rose +, writes (17 February 2012):
 Ok, so for your first kiss, I dont think tongue is a good idea.
Here's some tips:
dont just sit there and do nothing. Wont work.
No fish lips.
Ummm.... Have you ever like, kissed a younger sibling/pet on the head or blown a kiss? It's honestly pretty much the same thing. Just kinda... Pucker, press, and release.
It'll be akward the first time, but eventually you two will figure it out. :)
Have fun, and practice safe kissing by using chapstick!
Dont want crackly lips!
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