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writes:I am a 27 year old man, and I have never had any relationship or sexual experience what-so-ever. I've never been on a date, held hands with a woman, kissed a woman, anything. I'm worried that I will never be able to get a girlfriend because I am so inexperienced, I feel that no woman would want to be in a relationship with a guy like me. Is it possible for me to ever find someone, knowing as little as I do?
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reader, westernb  +, writes (18 February 2012):
With all sincerity, I believe that are a lot more people like you out there wondering the same thing. And then the vicious cycle goes on and the years go by and you're in the same spot.
Thing is, our minds plays tricks on us and our insecurities speak even louder that just to be safe, we hide ourselves so nobody will "know it".
You have to face it sooner or later. You might be surprised. If you find someone that you are really interested, ask them out and go from there. Take courage for who you are and they will respect you.
But, just to help you through it, go do some therapy to figure out how to do that. Sometimes we can't get out of a situation by ourselves.
Better sooner than later.
Wish u well!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2012): To be honest with you, i am sure most women would love to have you for a boyfriend. Being female i find the exerienced guys extremely forward in relationships and believe me, going out with someone and knowing they are "inexperienced" can be a wonderful thing as it will make your partner feel special knowing that they are going to be your first ever girlfriend sharing what could and hopefully will be some of the most special moments in your life. Experience doesn't necessarily make people a better partner in fact being too experienced puts a lot of people off. Just be yourself and goodluck!
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