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writes:I have a dating problem. I'm 16 years old and I've been dating this guy and have been for 7 months. The problem is that I like another guy who lives on the block down from me. We've known each other for seven years and I've liked him for quite sometime. Another part of the problem is that he has a girlfriend as well. My boyfriend and I have grown apart a bit and I don't even feel like his girlfriend anymore. I'm afraid of letting go because I love his family, but I don't love him. My boyfriend and I haven't talked in days. My crush and I went to lunch today and had a great time; we truly have a great connection. We flirt a lot when we're around each other and we can tell endless stories to one another. He always flashes me the most beautiful smile, it's irresistible. What do I do? Who do I choose? Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2012): It sounds like you like more the second guy than the first, also it seems that he has stopped liking you? Go for the second maybe, but don't cheat
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reader, Guruburu  +, writes (22 December 2012):
I don't understand what your choice is...you either stay with the guy you don't like, or you move on. How does this friend of yours factor in, if he has a girlfriend? Did he say he'd break p with her to be with you? If not, find someone who you can actually, you know date.
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reader, ImmortalPrincess  +, writes (22 December 2012):
 If you don't love your boyfriend, then you seriously need to let him go - BUT as far as this other guy is concerned, he isn't available. He has a girlfriend - so unless he plans on leaving her, there is no choice to be made there.
Seriously, you do not want to fall into that trap of being his little piece the side - and if he cheats on her, with you, then you will NEVER truly be able to trust him to be faithful to you.
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