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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: I'm really into this guy in the year called Jack. We go to the same school and we both row so we see each other quite alot. Whenever we see each other, we start subtly flirting but it normally ends with us just locking eyes and mentally undressing each other. The sexual tension is crazy. He is really sweet and makes me laugh but these interactions are sparse and probably only happen once every 1/2 weeks because the rest of the time its a passing hello because we are both so busy. It's driving me crazy, when we are around each other, it feels like he's really into me and I try and make it clear that I'm into him but nothing ever progresses, I don't even have his number. What do you think I can do to try and move things along abit or prehaps some tips to get him off my mind...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2012): ^^ Thank you so much. Bit of an eye opener, feel a tad silly for not thinking of that one. I guess it's a classic case of "He's not that into me."
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 December 2012):
honey you may be mentally undressing him but he may be thinking "why is this psycho bitch staring at me like she's taking my clothes off"
do NOT project YOUR feelings onto someone else. It's a sure recipe for heartbreak.
If you've made it clear that you are interested (and it sounds like you have) then the ball is in his court unless YOU want to ask him out...
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