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writes:im a full time housewife with a 4 year old daughter,my husband is working abroad in kuwait for 4 years..every year he makes it a point to have a vacation here with us for a month. on the second year i found out that he was having an affair with someone, he apologized and promise of not doing it again.. so i believed him, he came back again for the 3rd year and i found out that they still continue the affair.. again he apologized.. i forgive him again.. on this 4th time.. i found out that he was having an affair with another woman again and i even talked to the girl.. the girl told me that my husband is promising her a marriage and my husband told her that we were having a legal separation and she just needed to wait for 3 months which is not true of course..i talk to my husband without knowing that the other woman are also talking with me simultaneously. my husband again... is apologizing to me.. while he was talking with the other girl from another line that she should wait for 3 months.. that scene really pissed me off. i told him that i need him out of my life.. but he should give what is due for my daughter. I want to ask if i have a legal right of asking him a certain percentage on how much he should give to my daughter. is there any law about this? thank u.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (21 December 2012):
 you need to consult a divorce attorney where you live to get the legal rights available to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2012): Of course! But...more importantly, what country do you live in? In America, ya know the USA, you and your daughter will be very well taken care of by the legal system if you get a divorce and assuming you are a citizen AND assuming your husband even has any assets or income to provide for you. As for the rest of the world? I haven't got a clue! If you live in America and you are not a citizen, I would resolve that first before getting a divorce. Make sure you save all the facts you have from the conversations you had with the mistresses and just about everything you have and can hold against him. You are going to need that. Look, I believe in resolving things amicably but it sounds like this guy was just using you and taking you for quite a deceptive ride. So...do what you got to do. You both have a child together and it is in her best interest to fair well for herself and at least have a good chance at life in spite of her father being a complete jerk off.
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