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writes:I work in quite a large organisation in a big office building. For the past 3 days I have walked from the car park into the building behind the same girl. This has been purely coincidental however I won't complain as she is very beautiful.Today whilst returning from lunch I followed her into the building, again, not planned and coincidental. She looked at me, then looked again and said "Hello... Your my stalker aren't you?" - She said this jokingly and we then spent the next minute of so chatting (nervously it seemed) on the way back to our offices.Within the conversation I asked which office and floor she worked (as you would), she said to me "you work on the top floor don't you?" which to me means she's somehow made a mental note of where I work within the building.Question is, is this any sign that she may be interested in me? We both seemed quite nervous when talking to each other... She initiated the conversation and the joking stalker comment in a way seemed like a good thing (which means she must have noticed me before in a good way)... This never happens to me so I'm unsure how to read the situation.Thanks for your replies in advance.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (22 December 2012):
 I think you should just talk to her. Her joke doesn't mean she's interested, but it's definitely not a bad sign. Chat with her some more, don't come on too strong, and see what happens.
Pretty sure we're not mostly gold-diggers, I make my own money thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2012): I'm the OP and is like to say thank you Daisy. We have no work now till the New Year but if we bump into each other I'll see how it goes and who knows.
Thank you to the others but I'm not assuming I've bagged my future wife, I was merely curious. I am fully aware that if we meet again the situation will certainly throw up an answer.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy +, writes (22 December 2012):
 *wherever not whoever.
And I hope you don't agree with Bruce that all women are gold diggers ;0)
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reader, Daisy_Daisy +, writes (22 December 2012):
Hi
I think she could well be interested. She's noticed you and she initiated chatting to you. She could also just be a friendly person.
Maybe next time you bump into her, ask her for a coffee? It should be more relaxed than talking in the foyer (or whoever you were).
Be friendly, get to know what she's like, whether you might like each other.
Good luck!
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reader, Guruburu  +, writes (22 December 2012):
Don't read more into a situation than there is. If she's actually interested in you beyond small talk, she'll let you know. Or not. But don't assume a hello and little joke means you've bagged your future wife. Seriously.
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reader, bruce lee +, writes (22 December 2012):
 Probably just making conversation. Women are gold-diggers. They only go for good-looking guys with lots of money. And they treat the rest of us good guys like...you know what.
Sorry. She's just being friendly. Just my opinion.
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