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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:hey guys,ive never broken up with anyone before, in fact my current relationship is my first and has lasted more than 2 years.however some problems have started to boil over and i need to let my partner know that 'i basically need more than im getting. i love him, so when he figures out what he wants he can give me a call'.For all the time weve been together he has been indecisive about us, what he wants etc. lately he doesnt want to contact much either. Its starting to sound like excuses. we have been together a long time and i adore him but i need to be good to myself aswell.should i try what i have in mind? not only that but its christmas soon, and he has been depressed for a few months now, i dont want to make him feel worse especially with the holidays.I love him and dont want to let him go but i dont know what else to do?
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reader, T92 +, writes (22 December 2012):
 Give him some space. A week or two, just severe all contact (notify him ofcourse) and tell him to really think about what he wants. If you break up then maybe it's for the best :)
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (21 December 2012):
It may be more than your relationship, it could be his depression.I'd recommend doing exactly what you suggested, BUT, you have to be prepared for the possibility that this is the end of your relationship otherwise it won't matter. If you say "call me when you're ready" you can't be calling him up and asking if he's ready!
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