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writes:i am sooo confusedMy gf and I went out for about 1 month and i broke up with her, as i didnt feel it was the right time.When I was with her i wasn't that bothered but when i'm not with her i really want her. I really have no idea what to do, please help me
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reader, Darrell Goodliffe +, writes (22 December 2012):
 The short answer to what to do is you have to make up your mind. Why did it not feel like the right time? I cant help you being 'not bothered' was a defence mechanism, you stopped yourself getting too close to protect yourself from being hurt and totally committing to her. Now shes not there, obviously your finding out it hurts more to be without her. The short answer to what to do is sort out your own head and what you want.
If you do want her, I suggest you tell her, before she decides to move on and you end up getting even more hurt than you have already done to yourself. Take the plunge and commit to her, or else you may end up left with nothing but regret.
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reader, ImmortalPrincess  +, writes (22 December 2012):
 Maybe it took you being without her for you to realize what you had when you were with her.
One month really isn't hat long - You didn't give the relationship much of a chance to blossom. Ask her out again, and tell her you think you might have made a mistake. Give it more of a chance to grow before you decide whether or not it's right. :)
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reader, janetenneshehan  +, writes (22 December 2012):
 I have the same problem right after break ups. Resist the urge to get back together if you truly feel like the time isn't right. Distract yourself with some friends or your family for a while so you can get your mind off of her. Best of luck!!
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