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writes:I am 18, i have two boyfriends, i met one when i was 17 and was not really happy with him because he is a kind of introvert, my kind of person, but the other guy which i met recently gives me great happiness, he is a darling but not so caring. i was thinking of breaking up with the first guy but still considering the fact that he provides my needs and i know he truly loves me even more than the other, i dont really want to break his heart but i love the other so much. what should i do, should i still keep them both or do what pleases me? Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (21 December 2012):
 you can't keep both of them UNLESS BOTH of them agree to you having two boyfriends. I doubt they will.
It sounds to me like neither one is 100% what you want.
maybe it would be best to let both of them go and find one that meets all your needs not just some of them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2012): I think its time to put on your big girl pants, make a choice and then brace yourself. Obviously you should NOT keep both of them, its just wrong, and you wouldn't like to be played like that. However, I don't think once you make the decision to be with one of them, the other will let it lie quite so easily, and its likely the guy you decide to be with will find out about the other and leave you anyway.
But, I guess that's the price to pay for greed. You can have it all one day, and nothing the next.
Good luck.
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