A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am a 25 year born again female I hav developed feelings for my brother in christ at my church,and now it makes me feel uncomfortable at church I don't express my self freely in his presence and the thing is there is no way that I can tell him how I feel according to the word I sometymes hate myself of what is happening I hav been seekin for help non of them are working I even told the other pastor but it didn't help me its been 3yrs now.I also noticed that he is also acting strange in my presence and its not easy to look at each other at all plz help I'm so inlove of dis guy my problem is wht wil happen to me if he can marry another person while I hav been imagining us together. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2012): Why not make the first move and ask him out? If you want something why would you do nothing to try get it? If you want a college degree you have to actively do something by going to college. If you want to be with someone you have to do something. Being passive means nothing happens. Or is he already seeing someone else?
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