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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I met a girl in facebook and she became my girlfriend for one(1) year. It was a long distance relationship and she lives 8-12 hours away from me. We only met around 4 or 5 times throughout our relationship and per meeting, I stayed at their house for like two weeks or so. I honestly and sincerely loved her before.But around the last few months of our relationship, I became busier and she became more demanding. I had a lot of personal and financial problems and so did she. This created a lot of stress on both of us and sharing each other's problems was not very effective. It just made me feel like I had MORE problems to think about when I can't even handle my own problems. In addition to that, her migraine attacks almost everyday and this causes her her mood swings and so she shouts at me on the phone often.Then one day, I thought to just end our relationship. I don't even know if I still love her at that day, coz the thought of breaking up with her isn't as painful as it used to be. I just feel tired of all the arguments and problems we have. Now, after 2 months, I'm thinking of going back to her again. I still have my personal and financial problems with me. But I haven't flirted with anyone since we broke up, and no, I haven't thought about her since we broke up... not until now. I feel guilty dumping her. We didn't have a fight that day and seems like I dumped her just because I was tired of the way things were. It feels like I should have done better in our relationship. It feels like I'm the one at fault. But I don't think I love her as much as I loved her before. This bothers me a lot.Should I go back and say sorry? Should I attempt to get her back?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (9 April 2012):
 I think that you should move forward.
If being so far apart you had problems with her mood swings do you think being closer day to day will make it better? It won't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2012): ..Sorry..Is all that you can say...Go ahead! Go for it.
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