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writes:Ok, I'm pretty sure there's been alot of questions like these but I'm just really stumped. So it's been about two months since I met this guy online who lives an hour away (and trust me, this isnt the first time this happens) and I found him on this dating site then I added his facebook which is pretty much legit. We would talk through messages all day until eventually we exchanged cell numbers and so now its through texting.So basically here are my only clues:He texts me every morning before his work (even if i dont text him back the night before).Then he texts me when he GETS out if work ( even if i dont reply in the morning).He asked me if I've ever been on a date, and how long I've been single.He remembers that I'm a virgin(seems to be something guys don't forget)Basically thats about it. He treats me like a friend and usually refers to me as "punk" and I call him dork. He has told me that he isn't good at flirting with girls so I don't know if that has anything to do with it. We have just basically have gotten to know eachother through messages. Ok, I'm not saying i LIKE this guy, for I have not met him yet, but I'm interested. He seems like a great guy I hope to meet him one day, but honestly I don't see this going anywhere. I've had guys from online who I have met in person before, so this isn't new to me. But I would like to show him I'm interested except maybe the feelings aren't mutual and I just end up making things awkward. Please if anyone can give me any input it would appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2012): Thanks for your input guys, I also think he's interested but he's being lazy. I also forget to mention one time when I asked if I was being annoying, and he said "Oh stop it, you will never annoy me so we are good". Usually guys I've talked to show interest first, but this guy is different. He gives me like mixed signals. I will have to wait and see but I won't wait forever.
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reader, Abella +, writes (7 April 2012):
 Yes he is acting as a friend.
He may lack confidence in himself and he has confirmed he is not good at flirting. However he also may be hoping that you will make the first move. That is lazy. Do not let him get away with that cop-out. If he is interested he needs to be more pro-active.
He knows you are interested already. You do not need to do a thing. He IS interested due to his consistent actions in contacting you. If this is meant to be the will make the first move. Let him be the one to show his hand first. Otherwise you make it way too easy for him. Just continue being pleasant. The ball is in his court.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2012): I would say he is interested, he texts you when ever he gets a chance and texts you even though you never responded last time because he wants your attention. He brings up the topic of dating because he is somewhat speaking his mind, he doesnt say he is interested in dating you, but you know he thinks of it when talking to you. Also you said he remembers your a virgin, which means you two talked about that again to because thats a good thing for him. Lastly what he mentioned about flirting, probably just worried youll lose interest if he doesnt show your interested.
I think he is definitly interested in you, you should ask him to chill, see how you get along in person, a little friend date lol.
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