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*eccamega
writes:I get really nervous on a first date and there fore lose my appetite. I feel so nervous that I don't eat a lot. Problem is that guys jump to conclusions about this. To complicate things I had a wisdom tooth cut out of my mouth recently. So it hurts when I drink. Reply to this Question
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (20 April 2012):
 If they jump to conclusions then that says something about them, doesn't it? Don't let it worry you too much, let them think whatever they want. If they are decent people they'll not assume anything, but ask instead. And there's no shame in answering that you're nervous.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (20 April 2012):
 No one is really relaxed on the first date :) Some are just better at hiding it :)
Just try your best to enjoy the company.
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reader, Glacier  +, writes (20 April 2012):
It's perfectly normal to be nervous on a date.
Why don't you be up front and just tell him you're a bit nervous and don't have much appetite? Good chance he might actually find it cute and it may break the ice a bit.
I would appreciate such honesty.
You surely can tell your date about your tooth but I hope that's a temporary situation anyway...
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