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writes:Hi!I'm a 31yr married female and i love watching porn so much and it always turns me on but when my husband touches me or does foreplay with me i don't get turned on and i don't even enjoy sex but before i used to enjoy it. i don't know why is this and he tries everything but it doesn't Help. I'm a worried wife please helpAnd we've been married for 4yrs and this has been going on for a year.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys for all your help your answers realy opened my eyes nd I'm trying new things with my hubby nd he also enjoys it nd yes we now watch porn together. Thank you very much i appreciate it a lot
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2011): Thank you all for your answers
You have realy opened my eyes
in a huge way thanks a lot guys
i realy appreciate it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2011): Studies show that porn decreases your ability to become excited by your partner. No one person can create the level of arousal that you can achieve by so many images available in porn. I agree with the previous posts, you sound like you have a porn addiction.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2011): by any chance is this because ur doing the same things ? heres a few tips 1) use toys go on a shopping spree and buy some dildos then excrement with them try to make sex more exciting try new things2) make a bedroom rule with my husband our rule is We are not allowed to use the same position more than once in a week. Of course we break the rule, but not often, and it generally keeps us from getting into a boring sexual routine.3) Flirt, flirt, flirt with your partner No matter how long you've been together, flirt with each other when you go out. If you used to flirt with each other and now don't, start doing it again. If you never did, try stepping out of your "norm" and flirt a little with him 4) Try something you never have before whether it be a public place, bondage, or blind folds, it will bring a whole new dimension to your lovemaking.
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reader, Battista  +, writes (29 July 2011):
I also think you are addicted to porn. You need to stop watching it as it is very clearly having a detrimental effect on your marriage. How would you feel if your husband was no longer turned on by you because he would rather watch porn? I imagine you would be hurt and would want him to put his efforts into a real relationship rather than getting himself off to a movie and no longer wanting to be touched by his spouse.
We have lots of questions on here where women are concerned about male viewing habits, and this is no difference. You need to seek help if you cannot stop, and you need to direct your attention onto trying to fix your sex life with your husband. What you are doing to him is unfair.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (29 July 2011):
 You need to stop watching porn, it sounds like you're addicted. When you can no longer enjoy sex because of porn, there's definitely a problem. There are many websites out there that can offer support and resources, you'll need to search for one that's right for you.
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reader, megfaichney +, writes (29 July 2011):
 ive been married for 27yrs and yes i agree most times im more satisfied by porn than hubby,looking at porn without hubby makes it feel naughty but nice, thats the thrill ,it certainly doesnt mean you luv hubby less it takes pressure of hubby, you are probably more sexually wanting than him why dont you include him once in a while, you might find out that hubby needs a boost to,role play is good to, yes it can be a bit embarrasing at first then you just let go all your inhabitions and get on with it,cloud nine here you come.
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