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How can I stop myself from falling in love with my best friend?

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Question - (29 July 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 August 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

How can i stop myself from falling in love with my best friend? I'm freely bisexual and so is my best friend.

Anyway, we have flirted a lot in the past but nothing had ever come of it. We have only known each other for like 6 months but we just clicked and ever since have gotten very close! anyway, she admitted to me that she loves me and secretly i was thrilled but i had to tell her that i love her too but just as a friend.

I live with my boyfriend and love him like iv never loved anyone before; the trouble is, i am beginning to fall for her and i really dont want to because it just cant happen. I'm confused... any advice on how i can stop myself from falling in love?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2011):

I think you need to write down on a paper what you like about your boyfriend and your bff and then try to see witch one suits you the best . Good luck

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (30 July 2011):

Moo's Mum agony auntI guess at the end of the day you need to think about how much you would hurt your boyfriend if you act on your feelings towards this girl. Unless he's into three way relationships he's not going to be happy and you will lose him. You need to weigh it all up in your head. If you want to stay with him push this girl out of your head.

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