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writes:Okay so this might be a little confusing but I need your help so here goes... I was telling my friend that I wanted to get this high school dudes cell #. Once I told that to my friend my boyfriend (which was sitting in front of me) started telling his friend that they were gonna see if they could go to the club, and they was gonna take some girls back to a hotel room and chain them up to the bed and stick their... in the girls and my boyfriend knows that I don't like him talking about that stuff and so I broke up with him. He told me that the only reason that he was talking about that stuff was because I said that I wanted a high school dudes cell phone #. Me and my boyfriend have been breaking up and going back out for about 2 years, that was yesterday (the day before spring break) and he told me to call him but i didn't. I love him and he loves me, but I'm tired of him talking about that stuff and about him and his X-girlfriends having sex, he talks about that everyday, (I talk about me and other people (not my boyfriends) having sex every once in a while) So my question is: What should I do should I tell him it's over for good or what? Please Help, any advise would help.
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reader, bby lolly  +, writes (18 March 2007):
 you need to both stop saying stuff about other people you love each other dont you ..?
it sounds to me like he was just trying to get on your nerves and make you jelouse so your gonna have to sit down with him and say...you either stop talking about stuff like that or it is over!!! and if he loves you he will stop it and if he dont then he is not worth it .
good luck honey x
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reader, 20teri07 +, writes (17 March 2007):
 Well maybe he just wants to make you jealous and that's why he's bragging about his past experiences. Personaly I think you should sit down with him and say... 'Listen, I dont think things are going to work out with us if your going to bring up your past, I could do the same but I dont'. If that doesnt work maybe you aren't meant to be with him. See how things go over the next couple of weeks and maybe things will get better.Good luck
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reader, ursassygurl44 +, writes (16 March 2007):
Yes. But bragging about old hookups probably doesn't help his ego, or wanting to get another guys number..while you're in the relationship. it seems like he's matching his commitment level to yours, and you're looking for a new guy's number. based on that, I'd say it's time to move on.
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