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Any tips for getting over someone quickly and easily?

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Question - (16 March 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 March 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *awaii writes:

I can't get a guy out of my head. I've known him for about 6 months now and we've been good friends... I've liked him since I met him but he's already gone out with 2 of my friends. Lately he told me he really liked me. obviously I was happy, but after that he didn't say anything about it so just as I had almost gotten over that, he asks me to this dance his school is having but my friend, who he used to go out with is going there too, with someone else, and I don't know if he's just asking me to make her jealous or because she rejected him already and I pretty much know for a fact that he still likes her... so I was wondering, does anyone have any tips on how to get over someone quickly and easily, cos I've been trying, for months but every time I come close I end up getting drawn back in. Please reply, thanks.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2007):

Well there's only one way to find out if he likes you or your friend and thats to ask him out straight!!! At least thats one way of knowing for sure how he feels!!! If he's still unsure - don't bother making any more contact with him - he'll seek you out if he wants you!!

Other than, keep yourself busy with new hobbies/sports/friends etc so as not to have time to be thinking about him.

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (16 March 2007):

AskEve agony auntIf you want to get over him once and for all then take up a new hobby or a sport, something that keeps you busy. Don't hang around with him or go to the same places he does. Tell yourself he's not worth it, he's using you to make your friend jealous. Throw yourself into your studies to take your mind off him. If he REALLY likes you then he'll seek you out, if he doesn't then you're really better off without him anyway.

Eve

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