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writes:Hey everyone. This site is great, keep up the good work :)I have been best friends with my male friend for a year and a half and over the past few months we've been getting closer. We speak pretty much every day about anything and everything, we make each other laugh and we love winding each other up. We're quite touchy feely and whenever we go round to see each other it always ends up us cuddling up together watchin tv. Recently we were tipsy at a party messing about someone asked why we weren't together. We were like "he/she wishes, as if" messing round to her, then when she went away we were like "we're too good friends to get together". The thing is, I'm mad about him! Could he have just said we wouldnt get together even though he wants to too? Do men cuddle up to their good girl friends? He's the sweetest boy I know and I love our friendship. I don't want to tell him how I feel for it to be awkward and not as good after if he doesnt feel the same.Thank you for reading this x
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reader, AskEve +, writes (16 March 2007):
 I think he DOES see you as more of a friend but is just carrying on this "friendship" scenario the same way you are. You should say to him one night, "hey do you fancy it?" He'll say "whaaaaaat?" and you say "being more than just friends, do you want to give it a try dating?" and see what he says. If he says no, he prefers just being friends then you say "yeah, your probably right..." and leave it at that. You might be a little hurt but at least you'll know for sure!
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reader, childof1981  +, writes (16 March 2007):
 From my experience men do not cuddle up with their female friends unless they want something more. You and your were probably trying to do your best to avoid having what should be a very private conversation in a public setting.
I think this guys likes you as more than a friend, but is probably having the same fears as you are. You should make a move and see how things work out.
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reader, K3rry +, writes (16 March 2007):
I think that this boy is shy and doesn't want to tell you you're true emotions. I think that he is scared that if you get together and every fall out that you will lose the bond that you had as just good friends. If you really like him then make him aware of this don't be scared. If he is really as nice as what you said he is I don't think that he will be able to say no to you.
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