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writes:I met a guy just over a month ago and on the first day I met him, he asked me for my number. Two days later asked me out on a date to the movies (nothing really hapepend tho, we just held hands). Then the following week he asked me out to dinner with him annd his mates and after that we went for a walk along the beach and he officaly asked me out. I said yes. We have been seeing each other since and I really really like him! But the only problem is im not sure how he feels about me. I mean, I know he LIKES me but how do i know if hes just in it for some action and nothing more? I am turning 18 next month, and hes already 18. I'm just worried that he will use me for sex and so on. We havent slept together and i doubt I would sleep with him for a while to come until I am super confident hes in it for the long run. Butttt i am so worried that hes gona realise he wont get much more out of me besides kissing and so on and dump me. How do i find out as quick as i can if he is in it just for the action or something more?I guess the reason why i have some doubts is because he made moves on me pretty quickly and was very forward and open about it all. Please help! thanks.
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reader, charliejames  +, writes (16 March 2007):
 Dear anoynomous author,It was not a good idea meeting him. So if you dont want sex just email again and we can see another alternative.From Agony Aunt Christine and Agony Aunt Charlie James,P.S Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2007): Don't look for problems before you know there are any. You say he is taking it gently (well that is how it looks to me)and that is what you want, then you worry that he may only want you for some action. It does not seem so.If you only see each other for a while and enjoy it, where is the harm? I agree that it is much better to share physical love with somone who is serious, but you can be serious about several people before you finally get married. Where you place yourself and what you do remains up to you. It does not sound as though he would force you!Never mind what he feels, what is more important is how you do. Sounds like he is being a gentleman for now so stop worrying and have a nice time.
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