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writes:If a girl fancies you and comes onto you and you don't like/fancy her, can you just say NO!! or would she say i'm spiteful?I find it hard to say no.Thanks for any help. Reply to this Question
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (16 March 2007):
 You should be honest. If you do not fancy a woman, she will respect you more for being upfront rather than give false hope or feel pity, the truth always comes out.
Good luck
Angel of Love
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reader, charliejames +, writes (16 March 2007):
 Dear anoynomous author,Your question was good but you are right about saying no but don't tell her that nobody else will fancy her and do not be mean. If she has not got any friends be only her friend.Glad we can help!From A.A Christine and A.A CharlieP.S Good Luck!
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reader, Patient1  +, writes (16 March 2007):
 I don't think it's spiteful to tell someone that you're not interested in them. It's just how you say it. If you're not interested in the other person then it's better to let them know as soon as possible so they are not lead to believe that there could be more in the future. I would just tell her in a nice way that you are not interested in persuing any kind of relationship with her but that you can be friends if she can maintain her feelings at that level. If she can't then it's better to politely part your ways now or she will get hurt worse if you let it linger. You should never be afraid to say "NO", it's how you say it that matters. Good Luck love!
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