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*igryan0301
writes: OK heres the story.... I like this short blonde girl at my school..she is an animal freak like me *no we are not nerds...* But I like her so much it's not even funny and I have not had a true girlfriend before and I'm afraid to ask her out but my best friends are backing me up and I need some tips so I dont sound like a freak of nature... * I haven't had a girlfriend before, by choice. I have been waiting for the right girl*
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2007): hithere is a girl at my school and she is one of my mates, i want to ask her out because i cant stop thinking about her. but i asked her out a week ago and she said no. so i asked again, but she hazent replyed. she is really hot, im alittle fat. she said she dosent lyke me in that way. wat should i do?
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reader, XxCandyxX  +, writes (20 March 2007):
Hey there,
you must like this girl alot!
well what i think you should do is just start off a normal convo like "hey, how are you" then after mention something about animals as you say you both like animals. Then get to no her a bit, invite her out. Then when you feel the time is right ask her out! If she says no then dont worry about it, its not the end of the world is it? it could be that she doesnt feel ready or maybe doesnt want to be in a relationship, but dont give up still be friends.
I hope that helps
Good Luck xxxx
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reader, hiddenspace +, writes (16 March 2007):
 sorry jenna, but i wouldn't say that you're medium popular, and list off your qualities. I'm 14, and If I wanted a guy to ask me out, he would ask me directly, not through my friends, take me to one side, but not when I'm busy, and ask if I wanted to go out to the cinema, or the shops or wherever. Get her email address and/or phonenumber but don't make it sound pervy. Just say. erm. What phone have you got? . . Oh, I'd looked at that one, is it good? . . I don't think I've got your number, can I have it?.. .I don't think she'll directly say no, she may give you an excuse, but don't challenge her about it, just go with the flow and don't get too hung up on it. She might share her phone, or her mum might check her messages. When asking her to the cinema, you should ask her about a film that's just been released, (or is in the pictures atm) tell her that you fancy seeing it, she might agree with you, if she does, just say. Oh, well what are you doing this Saturday? (or whenever night you wanted) Do you fancy going to see it with me?Once you are there, like Eve said, conversation should just flow.If you get stuck, ask her about the film, or school, or gossip.Good luck, let me know how it goes.
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reader, heartxbrokenxgurl  +, writes (16 March 2007):
 well im 13 and i rele like this guy but what you need to do is start a normal convo. with her like she is your friend dont act like she is a prize n then she could start likin you then when its been a week or so get the curage to go up to her and say hey do you think maybe you might wanna hang at lunch or a date with me be cool n funni life im also animal lover im not a nerd trust me im medium popular that means im popular at my skool just not straight at the top where do u live im wonderin cuz it could be scary if ur talkin bout me lol but posibilites well good luck
with much love jenna ?
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reader, AskEve +, writes (16 March 2007):
 Why don't you ask her if she wants to go to the local cat and dog home with you. Let her know you've always fancied going and just never got round to it, or you could ask her if she fancies hanging out at the weekend, you could go to the mall or just for a coffee or a smoothie! Once you are out together your love of animals should be the topic of conversation.
Eve
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