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writes:Dear Cupid:I've been seeing this gentleman for 1 and 1/2 years now. At first he pursued me day and night. After about 10 months down the relationship, he tells me that he and his first wife are now friends. He says that the kids think that they are geeting back together, but we're not. He has since stop calling daily, only calling once a week. I have asked him to be honest with me and he says that they are just friends. Whenever I call him, and quickly says, let me call you right back. Sometimes he does and sometimes he won't. Should I worry about he and the first wife new found friendship?E.W. P.S. He says that he loves me, but he says that he's not in love with me or anyone. Reply to this Question
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reader, elsie  +, writes (16 March 2007):
 I wouldnt bother playing any game with this man. He's being sneaky in one respect probably hoping he can keep you in the background in case his wife dumps him or he gets bored who knows? God knows what excuses he's giving his wife when he pops out to call you back? Maybe he's not even with his wife and could be with someone new. Whatever it is he's not respecting you. Use the time you have to clear your head and meet someone new afterwards. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2007): Move on - this guy is just using you for sex!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2007): Why are you hanging around with him? Are you so desperate? Sorry to sound like this but where is your self respect? His kids think that he is getting back with their mum, why do they think that if he hasn't been around there? No smoke without fire! He loves you but isn't in love with you, er, I'm confused! What do you see in him and this 'relationship'. It looks rubbish to me, but what do i know?! Just walk away with your head held high, if he comes running then tell him to get back to his wife and kids - where he obviously belongs.
Take care
xx
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reader, AskEve +, writes (16 March 2007):
 How old are you? If you're between the ages of 10-12 then I'd say forget him NOW!!!!!
Eve
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reader, AskEve +, writes (16 March 2007):
I wouldn't call him again until he calls you. Since his ex came back on the scene he seems to have cooled with you a bit. Play hard to get, let him see by you NOT calling him that you have a life besides him and you're not as crazy on him as he thought. If he gets in touch then fine, if not then I'd move on.
Eve
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2007): How old are you???It sounds as if he and his wife HAVE gotten back together, if he says he will call you back when you phone, and sometimes does and sometimes does not, with no explanation.Also if he says he loves you but is in in love with you, well, that means he no longer wants to pursue anything with you. And nor should he if in fact he is back with his wife.Stop calling him and let this go.
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