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I'm sure he's paid the girl downstairs money for oral sex, do you think I should leave him?

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Question - (16 March 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 January 2012)
A female United States age , *ollygal writes:

My boyfriend of 3 years paid 3 prostitutes but said he never did anything. He ended up giving them money too by drugs thinking he would get sex. I had to coerce this out of him, now I'm pretty sure he has paid the girl downstairs money for oral sex but he won't admit that either. He acts like he isn't being truthful with me, do you think I should leave him?

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A female reader, askme88 United States +, writes (2 January 2012):

askme88 agony auntI know where you are coming from. My Bofriend of 6 years told me that he paid a girl money for oral sex. To me cheating is cheating, it is ONLY up to you to stay with him or not. Just ask your self, can you love someone, who do not have the same love for you. You NEED honesty in a relationship to make it work. I hope the best for you.

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A female reader, Mollygal United States +, writes (28 March 2007):

Mollygal is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you all who responded to my question!! I'm almost positive about the girl downstairs and the oral sex. I was walking our dog on the otherside of a row of trees when my boyfriend and this girl appeared. They both saw me but kept walking towards a grocery store. The time was around 11:00pm When I confronted him about why they went there he replied "What's it to you?" Well he finally told me that he went and cashed a small payroll check.On top of that he smelled of her perfume. When they came back from store they went down the back stairway which no one ever uses unless it is for illicit purposes.I had wrote him a letter explaining why I saw red flags about that night and he denied everything but then went and shared that personal letter with her saying she had a right to see what you accused her of. I say that they are guilty!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2007):

If your SURE then i cant believe ur still with him!!!!!!!

i think u know the answer to ur own Question.

what u deserve in a man is more then this GUY (sad fetish seeking freak) can ever give you!!!!!

simple you deserve better stop playing with urself and waisting time.....u dont have much time to waist on a looser move on and find someone who wont sleeze around!!

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (16 March 2007):

AskEve agony auntGo by your gut feeling, you obviously have your suspicions. He sounds like a loser to me so I would definitely get rid! What makes you think he paid the girl downstairs for oral sex?

Eve

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