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writes:hi iam 35 and waited my whole life to meet a man like this,that treats me like gold,only problem is he loves blow jobs and i hate it so much,how do i explain to him with out loosing him.
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reader, jae  +, writes (15 February 2007):
This is a good test. Tell him. If he dumps you because you don't want to give blowjobs, he's not worth holding onto. Stand up for yourself. Demand respect. IS a woman's mouth the natural receptacle for a penis? Two people who love each other can do just about anything with their bodies and it's all fine and good--but only if the other person WANTS to. Would you demand he do something for/to you that he finds repulsive? Good luck.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (27 January 2007):
 I think it comes down to compromise. Obviously you should never do anything you're uncomfortable with sexually but what is it about blow jobs you don't like? Swallowing? If it's that don't feel like you have to. Keep a tissue nearby and spit it out or ask him to tell you when he's close to coming and then you can finish him off with your hand. You say you love your boyfriend and that he loves it however so maybe you could put up with doing it occassionally to make him happy?
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reader, 21 years and lovin it +, writes (27 January 2007):
First as a man I will tell you something that is not a secret..... All me love BJ'S ! ! ! He is no different! I can say that if he is the man you have been looking for that you don't have to worry.... Just make passionate love to him and only BJ him if YOU feel compeled to!
Besides.... I know that you will once and a while and trust me..... You could do it every day and it still wouldn't be enough... But when you do....... He will go bonkers!
Good Lick.... I mean luck--- LOL
Hope it helps you!
Remember..... only what YOU feel comfortable doing!
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reader, eddie  +, writes (27 January 2007):
 Well, that's a difficult one. You could just come out and tell him. If I were you, I 'd try and figure out a way to learn to at least be able to get through it. It's all in the mind. Figure out what part bothers you the most and try to deal with that. I'd guess that most women don't dream of performing oral sex on men. I imaging they do it because of the moment and because he enjoys it. I'm sure there are some who love to do it oo.
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