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writes:I'm 15, and have very small boobs, only a 32AA. I get so depressed when I see my friends and they've got lovely, B, C and bigger cups. I envy them so much I get obsessed and stare at them because I dont know how it feels to have big boobs. It's really affecting my confidence with boys, and I dont want to take my top off in front of anyone at all ever. How am I ever going to get intimate with a boy at this rate? Oh and just to add to the dilemma, one boob is like a 32A and the other one is a 32AA. It just looks wierd. I hate bra/bikini shopping because nothing ever fits. I'm naturally slim and no matter how much I eat, I cant ever get fat. Some people call me anorexic and I cant stand it. I feel like I wish I was fat just to prove the point that I'm not anorexic! GAH!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2016): Honey, cherish what you have. I'm your age and I wear a 32DDD. You'll keep growing and end up with a beautiful and comfortable chest that you can love. It's much better than being stuck with watermelons on your chest every day. Even if you don't, love yourself and stay confident. At least you won't have back pain later in life!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2015): I am only on thisw for my niece she feels pissed cuz she feels she only has itty bitty Butt girls tits are nice when a guy is 16 but a good dude will stick with you flat or top heavy BE YOU!!!
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reader, Kristy1600  +, writes (6 June 2011):
Hey, I'm in the same boat as you. I'm 15, have tiny breasts, and am naturally very thin as well. I also have the added bonus of being 5'11. I am only a 32A and it used to really bother me but I decide that if I can't change it then there is no point in worrying about it. Whenever someone makes an anorexia joke I just laugh it off and say that I would rather be to skinny than too fat. I know I eat enough and that this is my healthy weight. My luck with guys has improved with my confidence! A smile, being fun to be around, and confidence goes a long way towards winning any worthwhile guys heart! If you are self consicous then look into push-up bras but your breasts will probably grow a lot more. So people don't get their full breasts until 19! So until then just try to forget about it and focas your energy on something else!
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reader, stolenmyheart  +, writes (14 October 2010):
im the EXACT SAME WAY! and i thought i was the only one.. it really sucks, but after years of waiting, i gave up. im a 32AA too, and im not sure if ill ever get any bigger. Its not all about the size though. For me its not JUST the guys and wanting bigger boobs to attract them or whatever, but friends, like other girl friends, i feel like so left out, and i cant change a thing!
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reader, laurennicole04 +, writes (6 July 2010):
I hear you babe.I'm 14. turning 15 in three months, and I only have a 34/32 A. I only started my period last month too! I have the third smallest in the grade, one girl who doesn't have anything but she's uncool and doesn't even care, and one girl who has a little bit smaller than mine, probably a 32 AA, and I don't think she cares either. It's so embarrassing though!! Luckily, I have a really great bras that makes them look bigger. I got them in the kids section at Kohl's (i know embarrassing) but no one was there and I just wandered away from my mom, tried them on, and came back to tell her that I wanted to buy them. No questions asked. I'll put the link at the end. My only problem is bathing suits. They make my boobs look so much smaller than they really are and it sucks. The only thing I can tell you is to just wait. Talk to your mom and ask if she was the same when she was younger. You may have also gotten them from your dad's side too though! Just wait a couple of years, and if you feel like you want to, you can try surgery.http://www.kohls.com/kohlsStore/kids/girls716/socksunderwear/PRD~150233/Maidenform+One+Fabulous+Fit+PolkaDot+Bra.jsphttp://www.kohls.com/kohlsStore/kids/girls716/socksunderwear/PRD~619070/Maidenform+2pk+Underwire+Bras.jspP.S. If you can't find these, stick with the brand maidenform. Don't try anything from candies or whatever, cuz they fit awful and did nothing for my boobs. I hope this helped.(:
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reader, seri-chan  +, writes (31 May 2010):
um i have the exact prob as you.my boobs are 32 aa and one is smaller than the other.when i want some bra's cause their on sale their like ennormous b c cups sized bras.
im 14.but to help you i have a receipi.tho its gross it helps your busts grow.
-1 glass of water
-teaspoon of salt
-teaspoon of olive oil
-half a teaspoon of sugar
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2010): I am 30.I have very small boobs.I used to stress a lot,feel bad.The other girls made fun of me.I agree some teenagers can be very cruel.But...the joke is I got the most number of proposals.I was the most sought after girl in school or college or when I started working.I just concentrated on my studies,was an athlete.I concentrated on developing my talents.I just stopped bothering about guys.For some reason reverse psychology worked.Guys didn't notice my small boobs.They noticed that I was a nice person and I was not mean.I didn't gossip.I was pretty choosy.I stayed single till 22.I lost my virginity at 24.I am glad I didn't give into peer pressure.Don't bother.The right guy or the right friends would love you as you are.
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reader, Littlemisshannah +, writes (14 May 2010):
Hiya,
I am a 15 year old girl too with the exact same problem as u, i have a flat chest and to be honest i hate it! so i know how u feel. I 2 envy other girls even my best friends.
I know everyone says "well give it time ur 15" or "dont change ur perfect". n i dont know about u but that gets on my nerves! :) At the moment i am drinking protien shakes called complan and i am drinking about 2 of them a day and they are helping me to pile on the pounds a bit. In the last week i have gained half a stone. You can buy it from asda if u wanted.
You are not the only one :)
hannah
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reader, Flashy +, writes (24 October 2009):
Everyone is different and everyone has different tastes in what they find attractive.
Personally I find women with breasts in the AA range extremely sexy and my ideal, for me, Bs far too big for my preferences.
But in the end it isn't all that important. Not too sound too condescending, but you are still young, and most people go through questions about their body imagine. Read the high school experiences of a lot of famous models and they will say they were self conscious about being too tall, or too thin. Your contemporaries with the large breasts no doubt worry their breasts sag too much, or their butts are too big.
But as to what you can do about your self consciousness about your breast size?
Ask yourself, am I a good and reliable friend? Am I a caring and compassionate person? Do I study hard and read widely? Do I take pride in how I dress and present myself?
Those are the sort of questions that really matter. Get across those and there will be plenty of guys that want to get intimate with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009): trust me. wishing for a bigger chest is a nightmare. i am a 36DD and i am always self conscious in front of guys. I get told by some of my friends what guys say about me and it's just embarrassing. No matter what I wear, I never feel confident because I have to worry about what guys say. My back is always in pain because i have so much weight on my chest. I go to the chiropractor a lot. && I'm 15 too!
So don't stress cause you don't have a big chest. You might want that attention from guys, but you don't want it from the wrong types of guys. if you don't want to listen, my advice is just trying to eat your dairy. I would eat ice cream after dinner almost every night. 7thgrade 36B- 8thgrade 36DD.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2009): Heey..dnt worry im 14 and a few months i was a 30a barely..!! i was like you always like OMG everyone has bigger boobs than me..even my best friend was a c cup but then out of no-where they started growing...! i havent even started my period and im like a 34B in only a few months..! So wait a while and they will grow...!x x x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2009): Fruit of the loom has make your own bras, so you can have one A and one AA for each boob.
Go to http://www.fruit.com/
hope this helped :)
Less is more btw :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2009): I cannot believe what I am reading here...I am reading the descriptions that you are giving of yourself: very small breasts, thin...I've been looking for women like that all my life and they seem so rare or just unreachable! How can you feel so bad about yourselves when you are a fantasy to men like me? I know what affects you: all those men going around and ranting about big boobs. But your kind of beauty is much more addictive and, once you find a man who is really looking for someone like you, he won't look anywhere else and will want to keep you as something precious and rare, instead of lurking around for big racks...
I hope my answer cheered you up about yourselves a bit. Get back to me if you need more encouragement lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2009): i know exactly how you feel. im the same way. only a 32A and naturally thin. people call me anorexic all the time too. i hate it! and i hate how my friends have large boobs and some of them are younger than me. it makes me feel like a little girl and like i don't fit in. and im always getting teased by my best friend, obviously shes not a good friend. but anyway i know how you feel. things will hopefully get better.
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reader, deja vu +, writes (10 September 2009):
Thats so crazy because I'm the same age and I have the same problem. I feel like what dude would want to look at my chest if i don't have anything to show for. I'm now a sophmore and it's like okay . . .Well arent my boobs gonna grow now? Im also tiny. Very skinny and i was often called aneroxic and twig. I have little self esteem because of that. And I dont really have a pretty face to make up for my body. The thing is that we all are going to grow when were going to grow. There isnt s*** i can do about it. Now you just live life and eventually (hopefully) they'll come in. Of course i am envious of those chicks that are like twelve with b cups breast and look older than my 4'11 self. But i cant do amything. Just wait and see.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009): hey i am 13 and i have exactly the same problem! i feel really self concious sometimes and get jelous of other girls but so what just go out and have some fun so what if u have 32aa boobs! the best things come in little bundles :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): Smaller breasts are the most attractive breasts. Be proud of them. 32AAs are wonderful. You shouldn't be jealous. I prefer smaller breasts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009): I'm 14 years old and I have the same problem as you. There is many model that has a small boobs. There are many girls that want to have a smaller boobs. Reading this made feel much better to know that I'm not the only one who had small boobs
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): Hey everyone!
I have just turned 15, I went shopping with my friend today and she has huge boobs 34G. But she isn't very nice to me, she knows I'm really self concious about my boobs, but she always says to me, "you've got nothing there".
I thought my boobs had grown recently + i noticed the difference, but I did one of those internet bra size calculations, I'm only a 32 AA still!
I wouldn't say I was skinny, just slim. 5'2'' and 98 pounds.
Don't worry everyone. I talked to my ma, and she said that her boobs were tiny until 16, when she grew!! So ask your parents, it's all about the genes!
Well, that's what I'm counting on!
My other best friends have:
36AA
32A
32DD
but still, they're all younger than me, apart from miss 32DD. Don't despair, there's always surgery!!!
Love
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): Hey look I'm the same way one boob bigger than the other... And I'm super small too for me being called anorexic is just part of my every day life and I wish I had bigger boobs and stuff like that too so don't worry your not alone
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2009): omg i am so just like you.im almost 14, super tall and super skinny, like i get 00xlong jeans. at first i was just so sad i thought ill never have boobs, and i thought i was so skinny it was kinda gross. ppl would sometimes insult my body and it made me soo angry. and its soo hard for me to find jeans.then i told myself u know what? just try not to care for like one week and see what happens.i found out so much stuff. like most of the girls in my grade were superjealous of me for being able to eat whatever i want and not get fat. which kinda help with finding real friends. boys didnt really mind that i didnt have boobs because i was me. some boys regularly nicknamed me "the model" lol. i found out my face was beautiful which everyone kept telling me but i didnt really listen until now.i think what really kept me going was this: it is pretty known that i got my body shape and skininess from my mom; so i asked to see a pic of her from whan she was like 18 or something. well anyways before she had babies. and she lookes soo amazing! i wont say hot cuz thats my mom and well yeah. lol. anyways. she was like beautifully skinny and definitely had c's maybe even dd's not sure though, i just got a first bra lol so im n0t much of an expert.so. what you sould learn from my blahblahs:1.your personality matters more to guys and to friends.2.dont worry you will probs look vair hot when you grow up abit.3.ask your parent to show pics of their female sibs and mom's pics so you can figuere what ur bod will look like in the future.4.confidence: nothing to lose and alot to earn!!btw's:1.you can always get push ups and water bras lol :)2. i used to get pac sun jeans but theyre too short now! so what i do is find ones with a great length and preferably the least loose you can find. and i take them to the taylor! its soo cheap way cheaper than ordering special ones, and they come out soo much cuter. everyne asks me where my jeans are from. and i always get a confidence boost because they mostly like my jeans because of my amazing legs. ;)
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reader, boredgirl22 +, writes (8 August 2009):
I am 22 and all throughout highschool i had Ds. Trust me i would have killed for AAs. first of all my big boobs killed my back and guys would just use me for my boobs. Thankfully i got a breast reduction and am now a happy 34C. You know right now guys your age might want the big boobs and stupid stuff but when they get older they don't care about that stuff and I know you'r probably like wtf im not waiting 20 years for guys to like me I felt the same way, but you just wait it will go by very fast. And i mean shit you'r 13 you will totaly grow soon my best friend was just like you and when she finally turned 17 her boobs like exploded. so don't worry that much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009): I'm 14, My Boobs Are (I Think) 34A/B And I Think It SUCKS!! My Best Friend Is A D.. :( But I'm 5'8 And I'm Skinny.. (appart from the whole.. hugee bum :)) hahaha i like to laugh at myself... When god throws you lemons && all that jazz.. It Gets Me Down.. But Sometimes I'm Glad I don't Have Big Boob's.. I Have The U16 Girl's 100M, 200M, 400, And Even 800M Records In My School (And For Some Uber Embarassinngg reason the Shot Put :S) But I Think Boob's Would Get In My Way!! And My Legs Look Muscleiee So I Have Big Legs.. Whoop Dee Doo.. I'm Happy With Myself :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009): Hey, don't worry about it im 14 coming up for 15 soon and i have absolutely NO boobs at all. Probably not even 28AA!!! Loads of people tease me about how im so anorexic and skinny but those people dont see how much i eat!!! i am worse than my dad sometimes...I asked my mum about it and she said she was the same at my age so im not too worried. I just know how u feel about stuff like going to pool parties etc....dont worry there are other people that feel the same :) x
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reader, Annoyed96 +, writes (7 July 2009):
I am 13 and have no boobs and havent started my periods.
All my friends are loads bigger than me and its so imbarrising going swimming and changing for pe.
At least your all skinny, I am average and have humbungus thys !
Hang in there ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009): im 17 have less than aa cup boobs
and i have to say im pretty hot
get lots of guys attention
and they actually look at my face when im talking to them
have a gorgeous bf who loves me for who i am and all that rarara and i love me for who i am too! cheesy but true!
and i can wear tops and not look trashy because my boobs are sticking out the front
and i have a naturally slim figure everyone is jealous of....
and my boobs dont give me backaches
i dont need to always go out and bye bigger sizes
i can go to lots of asian stores (small bras) where there are heaps of gorgeous sexy bras in my size...
and the boobs that i have are perky and cute and pretty and sexy in a way that big saggy boobs will never be...
boobs are boobs- even a little bump is boob
quality not quantity!
:D
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2008): Don't worry about it. I'm sure that you're aware that everybody is different. And everybody starts puberty at different paces, and during puberty, your boobs will begin to even out, and eventually as your bones get thicker, you'll see a difference in your weight and body size. So don't worry (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008): I'm a 15 year old boy, and don't wory!! Every decent boy I've ever spoken to doesn't care about what size you are! It irritates me when girls complain about their body when most the time they're beautiful and have a great body even if they don't have much boobs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): Watch this video, and check out this range of silicone enhancers, they really worked for me! I am just a whole lot more confident now I have these silicone enhancers.
http://www.maxcleavage.com/info/silicone-breast-enhancers
Good Luck!
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reader, souper123 +, writes (13 August 2008):
i know exactly how you feel! i try and sleep with my shirt off and on my back but its so uncomfortable. I hear if you sleep on your stomach it prevents them from growing. SO i try but i always wind up on my stomach. I run cross country and track and im super skinny! i hate it. and when i finally tell myself im actually content with my body today someone always has to ruin it and be like, "why are you so skinny?" "do you eat?" BLAH BLAH BLAH! and i eat SO much! i probably eat more tha half the guys at my school. and i try and buy padded bras and the work pretty well for me. i have a nice butt ive been old so thats one thing i actually am not embarassed about. I've also been told im pretty and cute, so just because youre flat, dont let it get you down. and since my metabolism is really fast, i lift weights in order to make my arms look bigger. and it works. =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2008): wow, this is so funny to read, becase i am the SAME way like i hate it, and i try to forget it, but then all i hear it ppl making fun of me, i wish that too!
so good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2008): Hiya, I know how you feel - but I'm a 32B and I'm 16, but my best friend has 34G boobs. It's hard when she gets so much attention and it makes me hate myself, and want big boobs like my friends'. But at the end of the day, if you get the attention of a boy, it's reassuring to know that it's not just cos you've got big boobs.And a lot of boys have said to me "More than a handfull is a waste"... and you'r eonly 15!Don't spend your time wishing you were different, this is you, and it always will be you. Learn to love what you've got, and as soon as you do, other people will aswell.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): I know exactly how you feel. i am also 15 years old, and I am a 32A. I get super self-consious about it. My friend is much bigger than me, and when we hang out with guys it seems like they always choose her because she has like 32C's. I am also "naturally slim" i am 5'5 and 104 punds. I don't look anorexic but people call me it too. i am just skinny. i am a VERY good eater, but no matter what i still stay slim. It's good in a way , but not when you want to develop. i have read that some people do not stop growing until they are 20. it really depends on your parent's sides of the family too. Your breats can even take after your grandmother, even from your Dad's side of the family. If I were you I would ask your mom when she got boobs. My mom didn't get boobs until she was 16, so i still have something to look foward to lol. I hope this helps you, and anyone else reading !!
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reader, angel-babyface +, writes (31 July 2008):
i was like that when i was 15 but now im 17 still a 32a and size 6 standing at 5'8 no matter how i much ive tried i havent put on weight or gained larger boobs so i just learn to live with what ive got and make the most of it.
just because your friends have bigger boobs than you doesnt mean that yours are not going to grow anymore you are still developing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): It's fine, I know how you feel. I'm very tall and very very skinny, people say i'm a toothpick. It hurts my feelings but i go on with my life. I also have VERY small boobs, they're so small i don't think i would even consider them as boobs. So it's okay!! Hopefully we will both grow...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008): I'm 15 at the moment and I am flipping out because I'm only a size 32B but I guess I'll be ok with that. Besides my boyfriend likes me the way I am so, yeah. No need to worry about it. At 15 you're still developing. =)
mc
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2008): im 15 and a size 32AA
i hate buying bras as its rly embarrasing 2 be so small and also hardly anything actually fits so most of the time i jst dont bther wearing 1,
however i have a gr8 bf who loves me 4 who i am and also loves my small boobs, so you shd stop worying bout ur size and b happy with who u r cos laodsa guys like small boobs and neway its ur personality tht counts not the size of ur boobs
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): heyy im 16 and im a 32aa too, i dont own a lot of bras as no shops do sizes that small. It is so bad and really annoying. I have felt the same way as you do for years, but you just need to learn to accept your not going to get big boobs. I use gel pads all the time which helps. I just wish shops done size 32aa bras instead of me having to shop in new look kids section. Being totally honest, i must have 3 bras, not good. Ive moaned about it all through my teenage life, always said i want surgery, but i dont i just want them naturally bigger. I am slim also, my friends also call me anorexic & other stuff, which im so not. I really do hate it but God gave us small boobs, so just be comfrortable and confident in the body you have :).
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): hey, i completely understand where you're coming from.
I'm 15 too and i went to Debenhams to get myself properly measured today (cos before, i wore bras where i kinda just guessed my size since i'm not that big) and i thought my boobs had grown bigger, but after the shop assistant took my measurements, she said that i'm still a 32AA!!
It's pretty annoying i know, since i'm also finding it difficult to get bras and bikinis, but hopefully we'll both still grow!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): Hello =)
im 14 im about...34a + heck i hate it
but lads shouldn't just want you for your boobs
if they liked you they wouldn't care + love you for who you are :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): im nearly 18 and iv never even got measured cus i dont think id have a size! get an panache atlantis bra and it'll give u a bust, not massive, but if your slim you'll look nice and in proportion. and just use "chicken fillet" gel fillers if u want some clevage. this is coming from someone with practically NO cheast whatsoever so it does really work!
plus, look at keira knightly! shes got no chest and shes one of the most beutiful actresses ever!
hope this helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): im 13 going on 14 and i feel exactly the same as you, all the girls around me are all like women and i am a 32AA. I have no hopes, as my mothers are so small too. I really want a bra, in gym its humiliating to change, but no size fits, and i can never go to pool parties because im too embarassed and self conciuos of my body.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): i feel the same way
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): alryt its mark ere lol was jus lukin thru the internet and found this. Ryt il give an honest answer..yeah boys LOVE big boobs like in magasins on the telly and all that! but in real life the girls arent the same shape as in the magazines. if you have small boobs then thats obviously the way you're supposed to be, ive got to admit id love to have a girl with massive boobs but small boobs look much neater and are still attractive
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): i have the same problem as youand i am 17 now.last time i have no self-confidence as my mum keep commenting about my boobs which is so small and she compared it with my sister.i also are naturally slim and are being called aneroxic by my sister which is depressing and i am being called popeye wife by my aunt.but as time pass by i try to build my self-esteem cause i know that when a guy loved me,he must loved me for who i am and not because of my boobs or any physical attraction.it is the inner beauty that matter most.so build up your confidence, girl as you know you are not alone and there are many girls out there just like you who encounters the same problem as yours.hope you take my advice.and don;t be depressed okay.stay happy and ignore what other people say about you.they will stop once they are tired talking about it.smile:)stay cheerful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008): i feel you sister i think i have the smae problem as you it makes me feel horrible about my body sometimes i feel i cant get a guy to even look my way when one of my friens (which has 34C cups)stands by me all you have to know is not everybody has huge boobs and your not alone
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): You are perfect just the way you are. Anyone who says different is either lying or mad. If a guy can not like you for who you are, then he's not worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): Hi,
Count your blessings! There are a lot of fat breasts, but to me you have the prettiest ones! You have no idea how lucky you are. Don't change!!!!
Steve
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): Hey.
Im exactly the same. I have like 34A sized breasts and im 16 soon.
Everyone makes fun of me, they say that because of my age i should have bigger boobs e.t.c
And i hate it.
I started my periods ages ago and they still havnt grown at all.
It so embarressing what can i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): Hey hun, I'm the same too. I use to get teased in younger grades about the size of my breasts [32 a, and one seems to be 2 sizes smaller, which is incredibly embarrassing], but now that I am in grade 10, I have met alot of guys that like me for who I am. I'm not bragging, but I am quite popular, and people don't seem to say anything about my breasts. My friends tease me sometimes, but I know their just playing because they tell me they wish they had smaller breasts. I got my period two years ago, and they haven't grown much. I am not comfortable with wearing low cut tops or bathing suits, but I am slowly learning to love myself. I have an okay sized behind, and fairly large hips, so I think that makes up for my breast size. So seriously, just hang in there! Be confident with who you are because that is what guys are attracted too- confidence. Be yourself and people will be naturally drawn too you. I wish you the best of luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): If a boy dosen't like you because you are a 32AA, he is not a very nice guy. I am a boy who happens to love 32AA boobs. Stay away from guys that judge you by the size of your breasts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): Heya im 16 and size 34A, I wear padded bras and I even stuff them but still have no cleavage :(. At school in PE i have to turn my back when i take off my top because I feel I have no boobs. My 13 year old sista is size 32C!! And im really tall too so it just looks odd! Lifes unfair! I just wanted to say that you arent the only one with small boobs! xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008): I'm 15 and I know what its like I'm a 34a and I try hard not to pay attention to the fact that I'm small......I hate it because thats all my friends talk about ......boobs boobs boobs I shrug at it and explain to them that I'd look awfully wired if I were 103lbs 5ft 5 very skinny with a b cup.......I have a boyfriend and he seems to not care I have a perky bubble butt that makes up for my small boobs ..........you sound really skinny so tell people that theyr jealous of your modelish potential and they don't.......I do admit if I were a little bigger I would be perfect but then I would lose my humble personality.......our flaws make us who we are and how we act ........and like the other people that posted......some guys like that........ohhh and with a flat chest you can look more chic and fashionable my friends who are a little lager could never do that because they would just end up looking like a slut which can be a major turn off........since I have a skinny figure I can get away with wearing mini skirts and cute little tops and people still think I'm older and they don't think I look slut !!!!............I'm waiting for that magical day that I become fuller.....oh yeah and I'm a dancer so its envied if your flat because you move faster!!! Don't worry about it.......I have a theory the more you think about it the smaller they get!!!! So don't think about it!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): Listen, I have a friend. She is a stick, she praticly has no chest, she's taller than almost every guy we know and other stuff. Me, I have more fat,meat and curvs on me, I'm short (well, agerage height for a woman), and wear a 36 D-DD (I vary, and hate it).She gets all the guys, and they don't even look at me! I get mocked because people think I'm stupid (you know the thing where girls with big boobs are stupid.), my self-confedence was shot when I started growing (in the 4th grade), and ever since then I've been molested and sexually assulted almost every day of my life! And my friend hasn't had all that happen to her and she gets actual nice guys and makes-out all the time. And I've been single for 15 years and always will be. Guys like the thin girls now-a-days anyway, you haven't had anything to worry about. But personally I like my boobs, they make me feel better for being shorter than my little 12 year old sister (who has no boobs, but is growing still where I had fully grown by the summer of my 12th year!), so I have the depth, she has the height. Sadly, that's how it works so the tall, skinny ones don't fall over (that's why a lot of them are so small). And the shorter vuloptus-looking girls have to be there to fill the gap! That and it wouldn't look right if we had small boobs...Balance. You know?I know you already got ahold of this and such, but I might as well put and imput right?~Tayune
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008): Hi dont wory im the exact same
my build is small and petite but i dont ant to be i eat and eat + eat ... but iverelised all those girls hu are normall sizes will get bigger when there older we will get a gawjuss boddy figure and the girls hu are yound and have big boobs will eventually go saggy n imagine them with kids look how saggy they will goo n lads are nott interested in saggy one !
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008): hi I am only 12 and I dont even fit a 30 AA and everyone teases me. There are a lot of girls in my school that are pretty big and I envy them and I get very jealous. When I was 11 I used to stuff a bit but I felt fake doing that. I asked my mom if we could go to the mall and try to find a padded bra so I would look bigger but she said 'I don't think they have padded bras in your size.Does anyone that reads this know were I can get padded bras that are really small?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2008): All boobs are absolutely beautiful as long as they're natural.
Not all guys prefer huge ones except for smirking over. Some guys like 'em big, others small.
My other half has an AA cup and I think they're just perfect. They're always pert and she doesn't need to wear a bra, although she does. Anything that doesn't fit in a mouth is wasted effort to my mind.
there are sveral underwear suppliers that deal only in the smaller sizes, and if you get measured properly you'll find a bra that fits.
Be thankful that you haven't got huge sweaty titties with fungus underneath them, (rather like athletes foot) that give you back pain and grooves over your shoulders from the straps.
Phil
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2008): Hey, look, so you're 15 and 32 AA don't worry. I'm sure you know, you'll grow. And even if you don't grow, don't worry. I'm in my twenties and I'm only a 32 AA. I've been though stages of frustration about it, but it's silly really. My boobs haven't grown, but I've grown to love them. Don't get me wrong, it would be cool if they did get bigger. My only issue is that I can't seem to find sexy bras in this size. They all seem to be plain or have teddy bears on them. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2008): hey just read some e-mails and just wanted to say i know its hard but stop worrying, i am 15 in june and a 32DD, size 10 and still would like to be bigger on top but whatever size you are you always want to be different?! I find that La Senza do really gorgeous bust enhancing bras and some tricks that my flat chested friend told me are: massage bronzer lotion or powder on your chest, fill a glass with cold and hot water (but not too hot) (also best done in bath or shower) put cold glass on one boob and lean back so that your boob is completely covered repeat wih other side and then hot, your boobs are instantly a size bigger- i think it might have somehting to do with blood rushing up and down! but love yourself its probs only you that really notices but if you still feel a little self concious then try these they really work! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2008): Hey,I know exactly what you mean and I'm OLDER and SMALLER!!!I'm 18 and am 30AA. I am TERRIFIED about taking my top off infront of any guy OR girl, even my best friends. I feel like such a fraud cos I wear padded bras and then if I say I'm flat chested they're like "no you're not...!" but it's all padding!BUT...... what everyone's said has been really encouraging :) and deep down I know it's true. I know people big up boobs, but think about it - they're ONE feature on you. Think about all the other amazing features you've got!!And also think about it like this - a lot of guys worry, for example, about being muscular/toned - cos they think it's what girls want. But there are LOADS of girls who couldn't care less about that (me included - I actually really like skinny guys.) So although there might be a lot of emphasis put on boobs, they're just one aspect of your body, and not all guys like the same thing.I wish I was more confident, but we can get there - I'm sure of it :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2008): Hi, i have read all the posts and i just wanted to say that... I am 23 years old and a 32B...I always thought i was a 34A but got measured three times to make sure what i size i actually was.
I started growing at 12 and stopped at 14 years old, i have been this size since:-
5ft2, 8st1 (heaviest 8st8) I am a size 6/8 on top and 8/10 on my bottom (which is a bit wobbly). When i was a teenager i HATEDmy body, i had the smallest boobs and swimming classes were a nightmare. BUT since being in relationships with great guys who worship and like my body as it is, you become more confident and realise that there are men out there who LOVE small, petite women! I always say to myself i would rather be my small size then overweight with boobs that will eventually go saggy.
So i say to any teenager you will learn to love yourself the way you are..
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2008): Hey, at least you are small everwhere. Im nearly 16, and my boobs dant fit anything. I seriously mean it, its not that im just complaining because they are 'only an A' or something like that. They don't even fit As, not even close. But no one can call me anorexic, because im 5'11", and i have huge thighs. Again, not joking or seeing it as worse than it is. And the funny thing is, i am actually a recovering anorexic. But the small boob size has nothing to do with that, i never had any, my older sis is larger than me, but barely fits an A, and she is nineteen, though they did get even smaller as i lost wieght. In fact, i lost weight everywhere but on my thighs. So, honestly, i would kill to be you, at least you can be called petite, im just a hulking teenager with man-boobs smaller than my principal's.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2008): hey there...im a 16 year old guy, and personally i LOVE smaller boobs and the whole petite figure. i dont know why, theres just something about it that i absolutly adore.....so cheer up girls, because there are other guys besides myself that feel the same way!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2008): Hii There, Im 14, 15 Soon, I am completly flat chested and i really mean flat chested! i havent started my period yet and im reaally worried about it! i eat loads and i cant put on weight and people do the same thing to me too ! i never get any boys attention !Not only im scared there something wrong with me and i gett soo jelous of all my other freinds :( ! so dont worry youre not the only one out there ! please someone helpful reply to our mails please! ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2008): I'm 14 1/2 and all my friends keep going on about the size of my 'non existant breasts' i've been called all sorts of things from minus-tripple-A to being said that i'm "so flat the walls are jellous"
Yeah it gets you down but i suppose everyone has their growing rate.
I do get really self concious when swimming but then again there aren't many people out there who are 100% happy with their figure. We may be flat chested but we're skinny and tall.
Just remeber there are no women out there with absolutely no chest because we'll keep growing... wont be long :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2008): hii. im 16 and i never really had big boobs until i went on the pill. i wish girls would stop worrying about the size of their boobs because the prettiest tops and the prettiest bras come in smaller sizes. and guys nowadays go for legs etc. bigger boobs make me look wide on my tophalf.. like chubby :|. and besides the size of your boobs i reckon is genetics. stop worrryinggg :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2008): OMG! I am 14 almost 15 and I don't even have anything at all! Grade 4ers have bigger ones than I do! I don't get it! I get teased around by boys and girls. It sucks I've had my period since I was 10 and I just don't have boobs at all. I'm 5'4 and 103 lbs. and no boobs! WOW! I hate it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2008): i hear the pills work, didnt try it myself but heard it was safe ;/
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reader, daletom +, writes (3 January 2008):
What can you do? - Work hard to accept yourself for what you are. Yes, it may take some real WORK.- Don't try to be what you're not. People are turned off by phonies, or else try to exploit their insecurity.- Make the most of what you have. Please don't get fat for any reason; certainly not to get boobs!- Wait a few years before doing anything drastic.OK, I'm a guy so what do I know about your problem? A woman I love (my wife) has a similar situation. She tells me (I didn't know her then) that she didn't even start to get breasts until she was 16. Even her younger sisters teased her for being "flat". Well, she eventually filled out to a 34-A (on a 5'10" frame) and I knew what was (or wasn't) there when I married her. She carried and breast-fed 4 kids. Now she's over 50, and . . . a bit less than a 34-A.Sexually I find her VERY attractive! Her breasts don't sag - they nicely fill the palm of my hand - she has a shape that women less than half her age actually envy - she can go braless most of the time, which makes her delightfully accessible for a loving, reassuring fondling. As far as I can tell being small-breasted hasn't diminished her enjoyment of sex in the least.Contemporary culture certainly exalts big bosoms. The stigma of being small-breasted, even 30 years after the overt teasing stopped, still affects her. It bothered her when our 14-year old daughter (now almost 25) was bustier than my wife EVER was - even pregnant. I'll admit that I enjoyed her being pregnant and nursing, when she blossomed out to a C-cup, but I don't have any real complaints about her as she is now.I know you face a difficult problem. I wish I could offer you a more definite, concrete, solution. Be assured that some men find your shape very attractive. No, not ALL men - but you only need one man! You can have a very loving, long lasting marriage. Your husband is more likely to love you for WHO you are, and not be drawn away by somebody whose skin is shaped differently. Your bust size has nothing to do with your ability to eventually bear and nurse children.Above all, don't let your friends make you feel inferior. You're not!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008): I have the same problem except to make things worse i have pectus excavum which means my chest goes in and looks like I have even less than i do!!! I can never get fat either and in order to make my chest look normal i have to wear a bigger bra size which is still a 32 A. pathetic.:(
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008): I am nearly 17 and barely an AA. My A, B and even C cup friends complain they have no boobs and its just so irritating at least they have something - being completely flat chested is different I think.
I just stay hopeful - some people grow until they early twenties and my mum is a C which is more than enough for me. I am also going to try eating more but like some of you it doesnt make much difference.
Still, I feel conscious now and again when i realise Im 17 in a month and am as flat as an ironing board. Definietly scares me about getting with a guy - having small boobs is one thing, having none is another!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2007): Your not alone, im 18 and im a 32AA, dont worry, there are boys out there that love smaller boobs. Just remember this saying, Small boobs gr8 bums, big boobs saggy bums. I still constantly feel S**T about my chest size, and i wish i had bigger boobs as my 14 year old cousins have C/D cups.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): heyy there.
uhm.
same here.
it kinda sucks.
but you would rather be natural then have
8,000$ boobs right?
i envy my friends too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2007): hiyaa xsame here, maybe even worse =[im 14 in a few days and im a 30aa.. and even 28aa is slightly bigi dont like to say i have no boobs, i do have them they're just very small.. but i havent started my periods yet so they might grow sooneven if they do grow, i dont think they will grow very big as my mother has very small breasts and breast size is generally decided on by geneticsso just know your not the only one :)and reading these comments has made me feel better about myself because i often feel like i am the only girl in the world with small breasts.i dont really think theres any way of making them bigger except to just wait..just keep your fingers crossed and hope they get bigger :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): I suffer with the same problem.
Im almost 16 and im flat, 32A i think. My mum thinks that i should have them measured properly, but im too embarrased of anyone knowing my size and showing them to some one else.
It really gets me down as i feel i cant be myself and i have no confidece. I would love to wear many tops but most of the time i cant because of the cut down the front or if its tite, so is tick to loose tops and padded bras. even though they do nothing. I have only 3 bras as i have not got the confidence to go out and buy ill just end up in the changing rooms crying at how depressed i am with them. I have swimming once a week but i have only done it 4 times in 2 years. When i do pluck up the courage to go i stand putting my arms infront of my front to cover so noone will see. Im a skinny girl yes, but im not thin! Nor am i fat. So why do i have no boobs? I eat healthily and dont starve myself. My friend is skinnier than me, a size 6 and im a size 8 and she had full C cup boobs. I dont understand as my family all have size C and bigger boobs.. so why have i only got size A.
also another issue i have to deal with it sex. i cant imagine showing someone my body, all of my friends have had sex and i feel left out even though im only 15, 16 next month.
just the feeling of someone seeing them and being so disappointed would kill me.
I just cannot find confidence in my self at all.
I just envy those with bigger boobs.
This websit has helped me a bit too see that it is not just me without boobs. So i feel a slight bit better. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2007): Hey hun :]im like you,im 14 in february and im a 32A cup size. altho thats still a bit too big for me aswell.I get so jealous of my friends. there are about 16 girls in the group that i hang aroud with and about 6 of them are DD'S and the rest are C's and B's. There is only one girl with me who is an A but hers are growing quickly. Boys can be really cruel n ive been called lots of names b4. like flat chested and a boy and other horrible things. i used to want to cry when peple sed that but now i just give them a look as if to say " you know what your the pathetic one whos going around looking at girls boobs, when theres plenty of things wrong with your body". and walk away. it is really hard but if u learn to ignore them theyll get bored n hopefully stop. People say be patient and dont worry you'll grow and people like me and you are sitting here now thinking. "Yer right not me" but after reading all these comments im not that worried anymore. Im going to eat a lot of pasta and drink milk because i have a really fast metabolism but hopefully i will put on some weight. Think how lucky me you are that we can not be all saggy and wrinkly when we are older and we can run without getting back ache. =]also today i went shopping and my sister who is a DD wanted this really pretty bra.. but they only did it in sizes AA and A ! haha :L If u go out with a boy who doesnt like you because of ur boob size and ur uncomfortable around him then ditch him. hes not worth it. u need to find someone who loves u for who u are and not ur bra size. saying that i know most boys are age are into big boob (wich they mostly see on porn etc) but when they grow up and become realistic theyll realise that fake bimbos with plastics boobs arent at all beautiful compared to girls like us.keep you chin up sweetie and remember theres plenty of girls like us in the world =] and we shud be happy that people envy us for a changeGood luck with the growing xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007): When I was 11 i started my first bra, i wore 32b. By 20 I wore 32c. At 25 I wore 32d. I guess as you grow older, your hormones changes and also the weight. I've gained 12 pounds since. I eat a lot of protein food like chicken and eggs and include milk in my diet.
Just don't go on a diet when you're still growing. Guess what? i've just had a baby and i got myself measured again in a bra shop, now i wear a 30f bra. so, don't give up hope so soon, we all develop at different stages, and if you keep comparing yourself to other people around you that's really trustrating.
Don't give up hope so soon, you never know what the future holds in that CUP.
I'm a perfect real life example for you to see here.
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007): ohh my gosh i know exactly how you feel. i'm only 14 but i still have the same problem as you. i wear a 32A cup but it doesn't even like fit me, and everyone laughs at me because my two sisters and my mother are size D and are like average weight but i've always been naturally skinny and people always call me anorexic. and i eat a lot but i just can't seem to gain weight.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): OMG! i am exactly the same exactly!!!! im almost 15 i know how you feel and i hate it how people are like just wait and see its so embarrassing!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2007): Be glad that your boobs will never sag, you can run without a sports bra and if your bras are in the wash you can go out anyways.
Seriously don't worry about it too much eat healthy and eat enough and it will work out. It is actually pretty common for women to have different sized breasts some of them have even greater differences. It may even resolve itself as you finish puberty but you'd have to ask a doctor to really find out.
As for attracting guys confidence helps better than boobs. I have a friend who has small breasts and an athletic body type that she hated in highschool but now all the guys chase her. I have a friend who's still in highschool who hates her DDs for almost the same reasons you hate your AAs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2007): i know how you feel im 16 have small breasts and scars all over my body but hang in their your not the only one
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007): Hey! Just in response to this, don't wry about it. I'm 19, and didn't have boobs until I was about 16-17, and even then I'm still tiny. Like you, I'm relatively small, fortunately I've been able to get to a healthy weight the past year or so, but I was accused of being anorexic all the time when I was your age as well. I also experienced the different boob size as well, sports bras work wonders for that, btw. Women's boobs grow until they're about 25, and your body will change alot over the few years. Just be confident about yourself (I know it's hard!!!) and you'll have no trouble finding a date. It's better to know that somebody likes you for who you are, than just bc they want to get some action.
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reader, ajmetz82 +, writes (28 October 2007):
Really, there shouldn't be any need to worry. I'm a 25 year old guy, and I adore ladies with small breasts. I find overly large breasts a bit off putting, and I love petite figures. Whilst it's a stereotype for guys to like bigger breasts, I know a fair few of my friends who like cute "handfuls" too. On another note, I'm very attracted to my best friend's breast size. I pestered her a while back as to what her bra size was. She wouldn't tell me at first, and I guessed it might be a 32B, but when she lifted up her top and let me read the label on her bra strap, I was turned on to find it was actually 32A! "Oh, you're perfect!" I told her(I have a crush on her). ^_^ Whilst the tabloids tend to go for very big breasts, and silicon implants, if you look at models on the catwalk, they're all thin with small breasts, or if you look at the nubile porn sites, all the teens have cute small breasts, so there's still a fair number of blokes attracted to small breasts. I was dirty minded enough to google for it, which is what led me here. But size isn't everything. An intimate moment will be special when it's with someone you love. And if they love you, they'll appreciate everything about you. And from the sounds of it, they're getting two different breast sizes in one person! (32AA and 32A). Can't complain about that. ^_^ It's only natural to feel self conscious - we all are - I wish someone would tell me what on earth to do with my hair. I don't think I've ever had a decent haircut in my life. But try and find some confidence, and just get out there. The more you socialise, the more you'll discover there are people attracted to you just as you are. ^_^ I must admit, your breast size sounds quite sexy to me. But then, I'm a pervert on the internet - so go figure. Lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2007): Really, there shouldn't be any need to worry. I'm a 25 year old guy, and I adore ladies with small breasts. I find overly large breasts a bit off putting, and I love pettite figures. Whilst it's a stereotype for guys to like bigger breasts, I know a fair few of my friends who like cute "handfuls" too. On another note, I'm very attracted to my best friend's breast size. I pestered her a while back as to what her bra size was. She wouldn't tell me at first, and I guessed it might be a 32B, but when she lifted up her top and let me read the label, I was turned on to find it was actually 32A! "Oh, you're perfect!" I told her. ^_^ Whilst the tabloids tend to go for very big breasts, and sillicon implants. If you look at models on the catwalk, they're all thin with small breasts, or if you look at the nubile porn sites, all the teens have cute small breasts, so there's still a fair number of blokes attracted to small breasts. I was dirty minded enough to google for it, which is what led me here. But size isn't everything. An intimate moment will be special when it's with someone you love. And if they love you, they'll appreciate everything about you. And from the sounds of it, they're getting two different breast sizes in one person! (32AA and 32A).Can't complain about that. ^_^ It's only natural to feel self conscious - we all are - I wish someone would tell me what on earth to do with my hair. I don't think I've ever had a decent haircut in my life. But try and find some confidence, and just get out there. The more you socialise, the more you'll discover there are people attracted to you just as you are. ^_^ I must admit, your breast size sounds quite sexy to me. But then, I'm a pervert on the internet - so go figure. Lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): I am glad that I can post something anonymously on this site, I know how you feal, I am 14 years old, but unlike you I am overweight, and trying to gain weight won't help....girls don't always gain weight in the right places. I am swallowed by a 36A and I have tried a push up bra and stuff, but it made for girls who had something to push-up in the first place. Not all guys think about a woman as just a figure, Some may say I am conservitive but I believe in No Physical Interaction until marrige and then you know the guy will love you. I also understand about one being one bigger than the other, but....hopeful you will grow out of that, my sister in law was a 32-34 A until she was about 20 years old, and after about 6-7 months of being married she just fit into a B, so just give it time and hope that they will grow.......
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2007): I know exactly how you feel. The reason you are so thin is because you have a fast metabolism- which means food processes quicker than in other people, making it hard to gain weight. The reason people are calling you anorexic is probably because they are insecure about themselves, and poking fun at your thinness makes them feel better about their extra fat. As for the breast issue, boobs aren't everything. Some girls develope later than others, which is probably your case. Thin girls also tend to have slightly smaller breasts, because boobs are primarily made up of milk duct and fat. A lot of girls have uneven breasts as well, because they are still developing.Although guys may act like they like big breasts, they will probably be happy with any breasts at all. You're still growing and will probably ontinue into your late teens, maybe early twenties, and just because your not DD it doesn't mean guys won't notice you. Some girls with bigger boobs tend to have a worse problem- guys liking their boobs, but not them. Be confident about yourself. You know you're not anorexic, so don't listen to the morons who call you that. I was exactly like you, but once I started being confident with who I was, people didn't pick on me as much. What are they going to get out of it if I don't give a crap about their opinion? Nothing. It'll just make them look insecure about themselves, which they are.The human image of beauty is distorted. I used to look at my photographs and think I was ugly. That was because I was looking at me in a different way than everybody else. When you meet somebody for the first time, you don't focus on every flaw they have. You see them for their overall appearence. Now I realize that I was prettier than I thought I was back then, and if I had only had more self-esteem, I would have probably spent less time feeling bad about myself and more time enjoying life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007): im 15 with big boobs! i dont hate it i just wish they were smaller than they are now! boys just stare at me because of them, they always want a hug from you and stuff, they do get you they attention you want bt sometimes i would just like it to go away. you should love your body the way it is. point blank!
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reader, Kohjakza +, writes (15 September 2007):
Girl. just give it sometime for your body to catch up with your wishes. You are after all only 15, within the next 3 years you are going to change so much you will not rcognize yourself anymore. Also consider changing your diet or taking vitamines that will excellerate the process of growth and development. Don't forget prayer, you don't have to b religious for your mind over matter strength of will to make an impact.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2007): Don't feel bad...I am also naturally skinny. I'm 15 almost turning 16, around 5'3'', and i weigh about 92 lbs. My breast size is 34A. Sometimes I just feel the same way. Like its tiny..or i feel that some days it is getting bigger and then the next its getting smaller.=[ I get critized alot too. They would say, "You need to put some weight on!" or they would think i have anorexia. You can tell if a person is anorexia by the way they look and the skin color. I'm worried that i would be flat-chested. But then again, i am very slim and i still have the years ahead of me. My friends are pretty slim too but its a normal slim. I dont feel that bad cuz theyre breast are slightly bigger than mines. Ask your mom if she was like you, naturally skinny. My mom was just like me, but when she hit 18, she started to fully developed more. I just hope that i really am like her. =/ I hoep this helps you...I've gain some confidence knowing that I'm not the only one like this. 3
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007): Omg I used to have the SAME problem. I'm 15 with 32A. I konw you don't wanna hear "Patience dear" or "They'll grow" cause neither do I.
I'm thin and always have been, and my whole life since as long as I can remember people are always like "Ew your annorexic" I got SO DEPRESSED with my appearence. And the boys in middle school never liked me cause I was thin.
I tried sooo hard to gain weigh but I couldn't.
I used to be SO thin but after my period started I gained a little more weight and filled out a little more. If you really look at yourself it's really not that bad. You have to learn to feel pretty. That's what I did and know I do feel prettier.
I have a boyfriend who likes me even though I'm thin and Even though I don't have big boobs.
I hated going to the pool, so I never did.
I hated summer so I always wore a jacket.
All becuase I hated showing my thinness.
And my non existent boobs.
I used to envy all my friends becuase of their bigger boob size, now I get a little jealous once in a while but I know it's not everything...
Alot of people have bigger issues, I don't need to fret about my boobs.
Just wait until you realize this. And you'll gain confidence. Plus you and me both aren't done developing.
Luckly! xD
Good luck!
myspace.com/Brielol
Add me if you'd like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you to everyone who has replied.you know what?i've learned to love them.and if somebody else doesn't like it, they can get lost!thanks to everyone again.major help here.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): im just the same im 14 and have
32AA boobs and i hate it. my
best friend has huuuuuge boobs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2007): It's obviously very hard for you at this time to accept how you look. However, based on experience with women friends I have, some were in the same boat as you are now and to thier shock, things changed over night in many cases. How you're wondering? Well, I know one girl who was just as you are now. She believed that her breasts would never grow. One summer, she woke up to discover that her breasts were developing and fast!! by summers end, noboyd recognized her! Do you think that this may happen to you? You may get a nice surprise very soon. Remember, not every girl/woman develops at the same rate. Hang in there, it will happen.
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reader, ladybug  +, writes (23 July 2007):
 love what you got honey! think of it as an advantage, you could do things that is hard for those gifted with chest, like with sports and stuff, besides,it is not a matter of cups, its about how you handle yourself, Who needs big boobies? supermodels dont have them...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2007): Holly crap, I suffer the same thing as you. I'm a 32A. I hate going into Victoria Secret's cuz I get depressed as Hell. I eat like a pig and I still don't gain weight. But, Hey. God made us this way for a reason. Think about it. Would you want to be fat and have medical problems. No way! Besides, when you find out a guy likes you, you'll know he's not staring at your boobs. Don't worry, you'll grow. Just give it time. Skinny girls have a slow puberty. And don't worry about the guy stuff. I know how hard it Bloody is, but don't make yourself fake just to get a guy. Think about small boobs in positive ways and great advantages!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2007): Im 15 years old too and im turning 16 on february 12. and i have the same problem as you. I have a 32A cup size and my boobs havent grown at all since i waz like 11 or 12 i think. And i also just barely realized that my right boob is a little bigger then my left one!! And im skinny too. I weigh only 103 pounds and alot of people say that im anorexic when i eat almost every 10 minutes and i dont gain any weight what so ever. and i have like the best boyfriend ever he always tells me that im beautiful and i dont need bigger boobs cuz he likes them just the way they are. SO just think about those other women with big boobs, they only cause back problems and some of them look like there wearing granny bra's. Alot of my friends have bigger boobs than i do but they all wish they were me cuz they dont have to worry about there weight or nething, and plus most guys just go for the big boobs and the big butt, so just be happy for who you are and they will start growing soon dont worry!!!!! And if you ever go out with a guy just be sure that he likes you for who you are not just becuz you have the body or the butt. just make sure he likes you for you only not any thing else!!!! =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2007): Trust me, you don't want big ones. They stink when you lift them up due to all the sweat underneath. Be happy with what you've got. When everyone elses are sagging in later years, yours will still be pert and pretty and you won't be suffering with backache or have grooves in your shoulders!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2007): I have 34DD...believe me I would trade you any day of the week. A normal girl fitted t-shirt I can't wear, it rides up and my belly shows, swim suits are a nightmare to find. AND I am really worried about having saggy boobs.
Guys like boobs, but the ones that are obsessed that I have talked to aren't really the best guys to be around. If they care so much about what size boobs you have they don't really care about you. Plus, work on your butt and you can always attract the butt guys. When you get older you will realize that it all really doesn't matter.
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reader, nailglitter18  +, writes (16 July 2007):
 The ever-wise words of one of my best guy friend:"More than a mouthful is a waste"I was a 34A when I was 15. Now at 18 I'm a 36C (keep in mind, I am 6'2", so they dont SEEM that big). Yes, weight gain is part of it, but so is genetics. If you really want to give yourself a little "oomph", then try doing some pushups and bench presses to work your upper body.But honestly, the guys that notice you for your boobs are NOT the ones you want around. I used to- and still wear- pushup bras all the time. When it comes time to take that top off, I don't care- because I know that 90% of the female population wears the same kind of bra. :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2007): I just turned 16 in june nd im still a "32a"well thats cutting it cuz i dont even fill a whole Acup.Thay say wen u get older yr breast ten to grow but i havent seen any changes still.Ppl call me so many names lk skinny,bones and even anorexic just bcuz im falt on top,ppl dont understand that those names hurt.No matter how hard i try to gain wight some how i lose it so i get no breast.Just bcuz i dont have wat you have dosent mean to put me down for it.My cousin is 14 nd has bigger breast then me nd i hate her for that shes always putting me down.Thay say "oh sleep witout yr bra yr breast grow faster"no thier wrong thay dont grow faster.But i guess in a way its gud not to have big breast bcuz not to make fun of but we dont sage or get strech marks so im kind of happy for that.And im also glad in a way cuz my boyfreind lkz my small boobs nd he doesnt want me to change them,so im gud....lolxz
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2007): dont worry u guys! i have the exact same problem amd even worse. im 16 turning 17 on the 23rd of august and i have NO boobs. mine are just slight bigger than babies! how do u think i feel? i have to wear padded bra's to fake like i have boobs. and i cant go to the beach or all my friends will find out i stuff my boobs! [how embarrassing!!!]. so dont feel bad. ive got it worse!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2007): Don't fall into the trap that all men like big boobs. NOT TRUE. I love them small, they are sexier, they look fantastic braless under a tank top or anywhere. Large boobs WILL loose the battle to gravity on day and be sloppy. Be thankful for what you have, you will find the right guy as God makes not mistakes.
I know how small breasted women get teased all the time, and I know it's hard on you. Keep your spirits high as many of them are really just jealous. A good attitude and a smile will make your day. Please consider yourself the lucky one as you are the sexier one. SMALL BOOBS RULE
Ted
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reader, alyssaz +, writes (6 May 2007):
me too. i have to same problem. im 15 and i got nothing. some ppl i know don't get them until like 17 or 18. if your still flat like me at 18, then maybe get implants or go to the doctor. my doctor said my body is maturing very slowly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2007): Hi, Im 16 years old, and dont worry, i
m not a thin girl, but i'm not fat either. I am very curvy, and i love my body. The only thing wrong with my body is that one of my boobs are a 34 dd, and the other is a 34 d, it used to be worse when i was in middle school. one was a d while the other was a b. whatever you do, dont tell your friends about this problem, because my boobs arent even noticable and my friends will be like "oh they look even today" and its just really upsetting. or they will say "that ones bigger". Keep it to yourself, or share it on this board.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2007): i know what u are talking about. im 14, 5'4, 95 pounds and 32 A boobs. my friend whos SHORTER than me and also very skinny fills out a B PERFECTLY. everyone calls me a stick and i love being skinny but i look so bad in bathing suit tops bc my ribs go out more than my boobs! it looks so abnormal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2007): I competely envy you! I'm naturally thin too but my breasts are WAY out of proportion with my body (E cup) and I have to get my bras tailored so they fit around my body and it's a nightmare. I always thought women with smaller breasts were happy about it because they can wear really cute tank tops and summer dresses without a bra and stuff. I guess we all just want what we can't have. Anyway, just know that those girls with bigger breasts are just as self concious as you. Well I am at least (: I hope you feel better!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2007): Im, 15, i have very tiny breasts.(32a) I really hate it. I feel like, they get smaller every day, but really i would rather be "flat" than have hugh breasts that might lead to back problems. When someone makes fun of me, i really dont take it that personal, there are lots of girls who are uncomfortable with their body! To fat, to short, to tall, there are a number of things! Just be comfortable with your body, the more confident you are, the more people will respect you and your storgness with show! And another thing, guys like smart, confident girls, so show them your okay with they way you look, they think it attractive!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2007): Im, 15, i have very tiny breasts. I really hate it. I feel like, they get smaller every day, but really i would rather be "flat" than have hugh breasts that might lead to back problems. When someone makes fun of me, i really dont take it that personal, there are lots of girls who are uncomfortable with their body! To fat, to short, to tall, there are a number of things! Just be comfortable with your body, the more confident you are, the more people will respect you and your storgness with show! And another thing, guys like smart, confident girls, so show them your okay with they way you look, they think it attractive!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2007): Hi There,Please don't worry, I have big boobs and I hate them! I would love to naturally slender and be able to wear strappy tops and cute teeny bras! The only ones I can get have horrible big Granny straps!There's so much lovely lingerie available, and most of the nicest stuff is for the smaller chest sizes so take yourself shopping and spoil yourself! You can get bras with light padding and so many pretty styles, I envy you!Please cheer up - you're lucky!Pixie xxx
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reader, Ms. Intuition  +, writes (13 February 2007):
hey i know how you feel. i am 18 and got small boobs too. i completely understand. and i am thin... no skinny. and this side of the world, big curvy women are thought of to be beautiful. it hurts sometimes, but God created me the way i am and i accept that. i can tell you that the way we wish we had big boobs, they are also people who wish they had small boobs.
about boys... those that think that the boobs matter are not worth anything. i am sure you are a good person deep down and that is what matters more. i think a good personality can do more ion terms of enticing a nice guy than big boobs can.
keep your head up
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reader, fATTYNATTY +, writes (12 February 2007):
 You know, i was the same, i did have that problem, im 17 nearly 18 now and im reltivly flat chested, but it doesnt bother me,
My best friend actually has huge boobs, and when ever we go ut to try clohes, she always had trouble finding tops tht go over her chest!!!
i never really realised how frustrated she gets and how i take it for granted just slipping a top over me,
you know you have more chance of being a model with smaller breasts haha :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2007): hey im 15 and i am literally flat. not even a bump. i am depressed too. i know how bad it is. sometimes i stare at other girls boobs, cuz i don't know what it is like. i wish i had some but i don't. believe me. i know what you are talking about. i cry every night over it. see the doctor and ask him if you are developing normal. if you aren't he will give you pills to speed up the growth. i am flat and i get teased all the time. but god made us and likes us the way we are. and if guys only want boobs, then they are not worth. personality counts not the looks. good luck and i hope you get some.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2007): Hiiya dont worry i am 15 coming 16 soon and i am still a 32a .. i am very slim as well( a size 4) what ever i eat dusnt matter i stay the same weight. All my friends are a C or a D and i feal so out of place. But now i am on The Pill and my boobs are growning ,i also got called anorexic too but all my friends wish they were slimer
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reader, Aunty Lin +, writes (31 January 2007):
It is nice to know ther r a lot of us slim small boobed, oft accused of anorexia people!!!
Don't worry bout it...am not gonna promise that they'll get bigger (coz mine haven't) but on the bright side i can promise:
they won't get saggy quickly
cellulite is gonna cum much later
after a time (i hope) fashions will revolve annd small boon=bs will be the thing to have
In the meantime i have two words for you, the two words that have saved my life: PADDED BRA
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2007): seriouly don't worry iam 15years old to and i have very small boobs and my right one is a small A and my left one is a big A. i was terrieble i used todo the same things as you get jealous and my best freind has DD breast and my sister has 32DD breast so used to make me feel realy bad. i am a very slim person to but it mkes u look betta in clothes. i have a boyfriend and it took me a while to show my boobs but he finally got me to take it off and he loves them he thinks there perfect and its normal because there suit my body size. i am soo open now and much more confident we take baths together and he love my boobs and he make me feel so special. boys aren't always that shallow trust urself that you've found a good one and wait untill ur ready dont let them pressure u eva n dw u'll get bigger in 3years. i have got to admit though since i have gone the pill my boobs have got a bit bigger and you can get them at ur local gp and you dnt evn need your mum there. dw bout it dude :)
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reader, candicemarie88 +, writes (28 January 2007):
i know how you feel.. i'm 19 and size 32A.. to be honest there is nothing i can do about it (unless i went under the kinfe.. which i really wouldn't do) you just have to accept yourself the way you are.. that's all you can really do.. anyway i'm thin and my friends are jealous as they're bigger built than me and say they wish they had my body.. so i'd say your friends and people who call you annorexic are just jealous as you can eat anything and not put on weight. i have a boyfriend and it took me a year before i felt comfortable with being topless around him, and he loves my boobs the way they are.. some guys get scared of big boobs.. and anyway i'd rather not have plastic fake boobs and i'm sure you wouldn't either. if a guy loves you then he loves you for who you are.. not the size of your chest, so relax you're normal!
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reader, PrettyPetal +, writes (28 January 2007):
 OMG! That was so like me at your age! I was the exact same. People would call me anorexic too, pretty much because I was naturally slim and they were naturally fat so I knew they were calling me it out of jealousy. But you know what, I'm 22 and I am a 32A and I am proud of it! I can sleep on my belly, I can run without a bra and when I'm older they won't be down at my ankles. I'll still be pert!
Guys at the end of the day don't really care about your cup size and if they do then they are shallow and you should be with some one so much better anyway. I've always been really popular with men and it's never held me back because I am confident in them. They are my boobs and I love them!
That aside, your still young. You've got plenty of time to still grow and if you don't it doesn't matter. If you are proud of who you are and what you look like then no one will care and will love you for being the beautiful person that you are! It doesn't make you any less of a woman.
My gran had breast cancer and had to get them removed and it made me realize, ok, they may not be the biggest in the world but I'd really really miss them if they were gone.
Don't worry, sausage!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2007): nearly every1 has 1 side slightly different to the other be it boobs or eyes even ears it's just degrees and usually with puberty things even themselves out, i have big boobs and i would LOVE to go back to a C/D cup, (i seemed to just jump to a C so i don't know any smaller) you can buy so many pretty bra's , not that you even need to stop them rubbing your knees, but big boobs on really slim girls (i'm guessing from the teasing your the kinda build every1 else would die for , or diets for) looks ridiculous ! tou know if barbie was real she couldn't walk cos her breasts are so outta proportion with her figure. enjoy your shape seriously you can wear racer backs and roll necks and shift dress's, and so many things bigger girls can't & if you ever need to you can buy chicken fillets (those fleshy padds to fill out bra's) for a particular top, bigger girls can't reduce their size, i know your uncomfortable but my smaller chested friends get all the guys, men like a manageable amount not some scarily huge breasts, seriously love you sound really lucky , go put your fav top on & look in the mirror
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reader, jeni +, writes (28 January 2007):
mate it's seriously nothing to worry about. i used to be in the same situation when i was your age!! all you have to do is focus on the things that really matter which now is your education which will bring your confidence forward and stop worrying about this as it'll only bring you down. i didn't have my first proper relationship till i left school and even then i wasn't looking for one. just you wait and mr right will find you and believe me he's worth the wait!!!
just have fun girl your only young!!!!
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reader, ady  +, writes (28 January 2007):
 what you are takling about i am realy surprised beacuse you are keep your eyes on the others (boobs) i belive that you should be asurred from your self and from your abilities and you can replace this missing in your opinion with other thing for example some guys have nice smile it may be better than all the other abilities.
i hope you understand what i mean in my words the important thing is to be trust of your self and do not look for B or C or other thing.
i hope i answered your question hoping to hear from you in you letters in other situation.
best regard;
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reader, Babi-G +, writes (28 January 2007):
you still have alot of developing to do in your body. your friends have just developed quicker. learn to love yourself for who you are if your confident the boys will like you for who you are and not for what you look like. if your confident on the inside ull be confident on the outside. all girls have their own body problems, there are actually girls out their who hate having BIG breasts..can you believe it lol..your not the only one so dont be jelous. just learn to love yourself :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2007): Hi Hon.
I had 32AA size boobs until i was about 17. my body has matured very late (it's not abnormal - just less common - so chill)
Bigger boobs develop also with weight, you will notice that skinny girls have nearly no boobs and fatter girls are more top heavy.
+ Remember all the super model the clothes look much better gilrs with no boobs.
Big boobs get in the way, small boobs are cute and easy and so much mroe comfortable, me with my 32B size chest I used to want to die for a C but then I realised wait if i went up just one cup size i wouldn't look right, So the size of boobs yoiu have are the ones you are meant to have. they wouldn't look right any bigger.
This isn't a suggestion but i found after i got my nipples pierced i was much more comfort becuase guys like 'em.
pierced small boobies over large boobies anyday.
smile - you'll develope more and if you want go on the net and search for popular female celeb's and models they don't all have DD sizes.
You don't want to look like a Playboy model ok :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2007): sweetheart, i know how you feel because i am the same way... both the whole breast size & also weight issue. i am 21! not only am i a small A cup, but i am naturally slim also & no matter how much i eat ... i would not gain a pound!no, i never threw up what i ate. sure i was teased & was called different types of names: anorecix, stick, chop sticks, twig...etc. i couldn't stand the teasing yet i never stood up for myself. i'd run away home & cry for days. the whole teasing thing brought me down & really affected my confidence as well. but as i grew older none of this really bothered me as much anymore because if someone teased me... i'd stand up for myself. people aren't perfect. what would it be like if everyone was the same size? "BORING" right? always be "comfortable" in your own skin.
short, tall, fat, slim ... either way ... everyone is beautiful in their own way.
sometimes i wish i'd had bigger boobs also & i'd envy those who had B's & C's
cups. you know what my friends tell me all the time?
"YOU HAVE NOTHING TO BE JEALOUS OF. WE WISH WE HAD SMALLER BOOBS."
bigger breast size = back problems for "SOME."
you're still young & you're still growing also. give it time.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (27 January 2007):
 At fifteen your boobs still have a couple of years before theyre fully grown and it's totally natural to have one bigger than the other. The freaks are the girls who have two exactly the same size. Don't worry about taking your top off in front of guys cos ur obviously not there yet. Just know that by the time you're ready to take that step your bra size won't bother you anymore.
CD
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