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If she working why is she accepting a dinner date with me and not going with her mates?

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Question - (27 January 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 January 2007)
A , anonymous writes:

i'm bit confused. there's this girl i've met once before on a mates birthday. since she has added me on msn and talks to me whenever i'm online. she recently got my number. today on msn she said her mates are goin to eat out with her mates birthday but she's not goin she's workin. but she said she really wants to eat at that place! i replied i havent been there to eat for long time. than she replied ye lets go tomorrow, call it a date! lol. i was bit suprised, she said meet me at this time in evenin. i accepted and she'll text me before. but she said she's got work? and what about her best friends? she doesn't want to go same time as them.

all weird please help lol. thanks

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A male reader, W United Kingdom +, writes (27 January 2007):

I totally agree with the other replies - maybe she's rearranged things because she'd like to see you, maybe the timings weren't quite what they seemed in the first place, etc etc. I say go with the flow and don't lose sleep over the details. Sounds fun :)

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A male reader, Damo United Kingdom +, writes (27 January 2007):

maybe u have confused the timings? maybe her mates are going out for a meal in the day and she is working during the day but is free in the evening to go for a meal with you? i'm guessing that this isn't the case. i just thought i'd get that down just incase. another reason might be that she feels slightly stressed at the thought of going out with her mates. maybe there are going to be people there who she dosn't get along with so she made up the excuse of working not to go. or even still, she is working, but the thought of going out for a meal with you, has excited her enough to phone in sick or book the day off work to spend the evening with you whereas the meal with her mates maybe just didn't have the same effect.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2007):

Well, maybe she rearranged her work schedule. POossibly her friend's birthday is not the same day as she suggested eating out with you?

Point is, do you want to have dinner with her? If so, I'd suggest taking her up on her invitation and you could ask about her work/friend arrangement if you want - but be courteous! Maybe come across as just a little curious.....also, do you know who is going to pay for the meal? Will you split the bill in half; or will she pay (since SHE invited YOU) or do you plan to pay for it?? Better think about that before you go, you know!

Enjoy.

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