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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hi, i recently met this girl up town, she is a mate of my sisters and well we got on quite well but i found out she has a b.f, i txt her the next day as i got her number off my sister...She said best not txt as he might see but she then txt me later saying hi and that it dont matter if you txt. Everyone knows she doesnt love this b.f and she doesnt want to be with him, she bores him and that he doesnt even treat her right. We spoke for ages on the phone and we have been texting alot everyday, i've seen her once for like 20mins as she came down to my house but she had to leave to pick him up from work. She has tried ending this relationship with him but she finds it hard as A) She gets on with his family, B) She lives at his house even though she has been taking stuff back to her dads little by little. C) He won't take no for an answer and he said he will tag her if he has to! I'm falling for her and she says she feels the same and that she could love me and really be happy with me in future...Please Help! :(
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reader, cseame +, writes (28 January 2007):
It seems like you really like this girl..
but she's having a hard time breaking up with her b.f
and maybe it would be easier for her if you helped her a bit to break up with her b.f
by A)If she gets on with his family then they must not be bad people and would understand that she wants to move on...go with her to explain
B)Why not go and help her take all her stuff back
C)You have to fight for what you love....well obviously not fight physically but if you really do care for her then i think you should go with her to help her...you must always get past the tough times to really get to enjoy the happy times in the future
I wish you both luck in the future
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