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writes:Hi everyone,I'm 22 yrs old and i stay with my bf for around 2 years. I found that i am having a crush with my lecturer who are 32 years old, single. He did know that i'm staying with my bf. I'm not sure whether he had same kind of feeling like me. He treat me quite nice (which better than any other students), and sometimes we will go out for dinner or movie. However sometimes i feels that he do have same feeling like me, but sometimes not. He is kind of emotional person, so i feel quite confuse and headace. I always wait for him on MSN, although i din message him, when i saw him online i already feel very happy. At night i canot sleep and wait until he online (this shows he just come back from outside and he always check his e-mail before sleep). My life seem become very mess now, what i shoud do to get rid of this kind of feeling?? I had this problem for around 1 year already, i had try many ways such as avoid him, however i still can saw him very often around my school. Help me !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2007): i'm in the same situation as well.i think im in love with lecturer.and he's single too.But the problem is im not sure whether he feels the same..what do i do to get his attention btw?i'm not his student adn this is my last semester there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2007): Firstly you need to ask yourself do you fancy your lecturer more than you do your boyfriend. If so, then the relationship unfortunatley is over and you need to move on. When i say move on i dont necessarly mean into the arms of your lecturer. It is never accepted when pupils go with teachers and you could be putting yourself in a very difficult position with over pupils. Seriously thinks long term. Its always nice getting attention out of a long term relationship, but is worth the risk of hurt and pain?
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reader, Alice in Wonderland  +, writes (27 January 2007):
ok sweetie, keep calm. Guys can mess with your head and your heart without you or them even realising it, so your torn between two guys? Write up a list for each of them then do two columns, what you like about them and what you dont. Keep them stashed away and look at them every time you see either of them, make time for both of them and if you start feeling confused just give it a big SHOVE and carry on as normal just enjoying the moment making adjustments to the lists as you go, then, when you feel ready sit down and decide which of them would be best for your personal growth? Which has supported you more? which has made you laugh more? which have you had the most fun spending time with? and most importantly...who was there for you when you had your lowest points????!
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