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writes: i am confused i am in love with an older guy only by 2 years about i am 16 and he is 18 or 19 and he doesn't know i like him yet as i don't know how to tell him and i am in fear of rejection but i am even more scared that if i tell him and he likes me then he will want sex and i am a virgin and i don't know firstly how to have sex alright i know what happens but how do you get there i mean do you just say hey we're having sex and then he gets his penis out and whippes it up you or what and i dont know if i'd be any go at it as i am sure he has had sex befor therefore he is experienced and i am not so i might be crap at it and he will finsh me if it vere happens and what if he dont like the way i look naked please help me i am so confused Reply to this Question
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reader, tell me  +, writes (27 January 2007):
firstly dont be presserd into sex. If you realy want to go out with him then just go up to him and tell him how you feel. Dont be scared to talk to him. If he rejects you then at least you can move on and find someone eles. And dont worry about having sex if he realy likes u then he wont care wot u look like naked. And just let it hapen dont be nervous or scared you will no what to do when the time comes.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (27 January 2007):
 Okay, okay. First thing you find out if he likes you. You're worrying about the hypotheticals.
Second, say he did like you... do you think you're honestly ready to have sex? You sound too anxious about it to be ready. If you are ready and you do have sex it'll all just happen naturally. It's not something you plan.
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