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writes:Hi I've written in before, ive recently been trying to have sex with my bf of nearly a year we love each other lots im a virgin and im terrified of the pain and as soon as he tries to go 'down there' even with his finger i panic and tense up and no chance, now even if he tries i sorta push him off or make excuses. He knows im a virgin and says he loves me forever and never pushes me, we do other things like oral and he stimulates my clitoris but never penetration. My friend suggested i take aconite which i homeopathy pill thats meant to relax u and reduce panic, ive bought some but not taken it yet, do u think it will help? advice please i want rid of this virginity i hate it, its a burden, at this rate i die a virgin!! by the way im 31!!! thanks for you help in advance xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2007): Have you tried a glass or two of wine. Speak to your doctor. I am sure they can suggest something for frigidity. Once there is penetration I hope that you will see, everything will be fine and dandy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2007): I have to tell you this...the pain doesn't last that long. I know that weed works, and it helps to relax you. Don't think of the pain, just think on how much you love your boyfriend. I hope the best for you!
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (27 January 2007):
 dont use any sort of drugs, because you will become dependant on them, to be honest, if your doing that it means your not comfortable, either you just wait untill you feel your 100% ready, or you try and get used to it, and try get comfortable doing it, i wouldnt do any pills if i was you. good luck
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reader, cd206 +, writes (27 January 2007):
 Do you think your body is trying to tell you you're not ready? I know you psychologically want to get rid of it but your isn't playing ball. I'm not familiar with aconite and I'm kind of of the opinion that herbal drugs work mainly because you believe they will and self belief is a great thing but as long as you read the label (because some of them react with other things or medical conditions) then you should be fine.
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