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writes: I know it might sound like this is a joke but i really am not joking. I have OCD so i obsess over things and think he has to know every thing about me but more the bad and that is probably because my ex made me tell him everything but anyways, you know how it is natural and NORMAL even though society thinks it's not to like to smell your own fart? well, i feel i have to tell my soon to be boyfriend that i do. It is really depressing. I know it sounds stupid but just try to understand! I told him other personal things in a message but he didn't not like me after he just thought it was weird i told him. He says i don't have to tell him everything and he loves me no matter what but i feel like he needs to know!
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reader, melschatbox  +, writes (27 January 2007):
 CD is right.
Write down your thoughts. You do not need to share every thought with him. And, he's told you not to. That is a random thought. You somehow feel as if you don't tell him you're not being truthful and it could damage the relationship? That is certainly not something that would hurt your relationship. But, then again, if you tell him it's not going to make him end it with you either. It's just a random thought. You know how when you were younger, mom and dad said " don't say things like that, not everybody has to know that".? WEll...just consider this one of those times. But, if you are truly obsessing about this thought and having to tell him...you should get some counseling. Nothing wrong with that...they can help you. I've been to counseling several times in my life.
Good Luck, hun.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (27 January 2007):
 Get a little book and every time you have a thought that you know you shouldn't repeat write it down. Hopefully you'll then feel you've got it off your chest without having to say it out loud.
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