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writes: hey peeps..im in a bit of a dillemma..iv been 'sleeping with' tthis guy for a couple of months now.and i guess you could say iv fallen for him!!!however, i wen out and got drunk the other nite, i kept texting him, pestering him to come bk 2 my place but he was in bed, so after about 4 hours he text me saying 'just go away'. Because i was drunk, i sent somee mean texts, and told him i was going to get with his worst enemy because hes better looking (immature i know but it seemed like a good idea at the time). anyway, since then, iv bumped into him 3 times and i just feel obsessed with him. he text me the first time he saw me saying 'ah well, i dont regret what i said last nite cos u were being a rite bitch.woz fun.cu around' i want him so badly!!or just to get over him?i cant get him out of my head!do u think iv really messed up!?thnkyou for your help :0) x x x x
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (28 January 2007):
 First of all, try apolgizing to him for the mean text you sent him. And tell him that you were drunk and didn't know what you were doing. And let that go at that. Don't pester him....just let him come back on his own. Guys don't like it too well when you do that...more or less they need their space. I hope for the best for you!
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (27 January 2007):
 I am sorry to say that you pushing him to far and just scared him away.
Best way forward is to keep busy, move on, meet someone else and take it slow next time. Remember that people need space. If you do not respect their space they will feel claustophobic and not see you as a positive person.
Work on your self esteem and try to understand why you feel so dependent on people.
Either way, he did not feel the same for you so this was just the icing on the cake. Perhaps it was for the best.
Be strong and be happy.
Take care x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2007): I've been in a similar situation with my girlfriend. She was blind drunk and we were having a fight (vocal not physical) she shouted "why don't you go home crying to mummy". The sentance doesn't sound to harsh but my mother died only six months prior to the fight. In the morning after the fight she appologised over and over but i couldn't shake the words from my head. I didn't see her for a week. This gave me time to think, I questioned whether this girl would intentionaly hurt me (answer no). Did this girl truely love me (answer yes) would she promise never to get drunk like that again (answer yes). Im afraid to say that its all down to the guy whether he believes its worth working though because he can see your genuinely sorry and wouldn't ever do it again. show him you've learnt from your mistake and try to make it up to him. tell him how badly it made you feel in the morning after you sent the text, That the text was a mistake.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (27 January 2007):
 You can try apologising for the mean texts which if nothing else will make you feel better for having said those things but he still might not take you back. It depends whether the texts really hurt him or if, deep down, he's just using this as an excuse.
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