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writes:I am a 22 year old girl in a relationship with a boy for last 2 years with whom i wish to settle down. I recently fell for a married man of double my age and working in my office. Under strong emotions i slept with him twice and really enjoyed making love to him. But i feel very guilty when i meet my bf, i gave him some hint that i am attracted towards a man and he was quite upset to discover that. I really love my boy friend and am very guilty for cheating him. PLease tell me what should i do. I want that other man to go away from my life but i am not able to tell him that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2007): yawn....
another person who 'loves him very much' but couldnt help but cheat on him...
if you loved him you wouldnt of cheated on him, do the decent thing. end it.. tell him the truth and brake his heart so he can move on and be with someone who deserves him.
if hes stupid maybe he'll appreciate the honesty and take you back but if hes clever he'll go with a girl with morals who he can trust.
dont lie your way out, be honest.
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (31 January 2007):
YOU ARE ABLE TO TELL HIM. If your able to risk everything with your boyfriend and risk breaking his heart you can tell a man who was just useing you for sex to sling his hook elewhere. He wont give a dam, he will just find some other idiot to manipulate and have sex with. What Comes Around Goes Around, get rid of this married bloke and make it up to your boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2007): You should do the right thing and be honest! Its so nice hearing about another girl, falling to the knees of yet another two timing married scum bag! While poor little boyfriend isnt aware??
You should come clean and realise that mr married isnt going anywhere!
My dear you will have to honor your boyfriend and change your wicked ways quick smart or you might be in for a very unfullfilled lonely life with all the married guys tagging along, if you keep making this mistake!
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (28 January 2007):
 The best way to end a relationship is to do it face to face. It's difficult, but it's better to do it that way because it leaves less negative feelings.
If you can't do this face to face, here are a few other alternatives:
1) Write a letter. It's good because then you can think your words through and you don't have to be there when he reads it.
2) Email/SMS, this is the same as writing a letter, but perhaps a bit more "cold".
3) Shut him out. Don't answer your phone when he calls. If he comes to talk to you; be avoiding, say as little as possible. After a while he will get the point. This is a really bad way of breaking up though.
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