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female
reader, PrettyPetal +, writes (28 January 2007):
 I always go for guys much older than me, the oldest has been 11 years. From experience, people will see him as lucky and he will have a lot more experience...if you know what I mean. ;o) Go for it!
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reader, DeeDoc  +, writes (28 January 2007):
 THESE ARE MY THOUGHTS: Weird? Nah, not one bit. Two consenting adults...very healthy. Go for it.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (28 January 2007):
 No I don't think it is at all weird....why do you?
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reader, shania +, writes (28 January 2007):
 Big deal....your only talking a 8 year age difference.So what? Your 2 grown adults so whats the problem? Iv dated much older men that that,so dont fret.
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reader, rammsteinfan +, writes (28 January 2007):
 No it is not weird, not at all. Age is just a number...it's how you feel about the person and how he treats you. Just go with your heart!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2007): No! It's absolutely, utterly, and wrongfully, very nastily weird. VERY WEIRD!
[blinks at you]
Would you really believe me or anyone? Would it really influence you that much, that you would stop liking someone because I or anyone said it would be weird?
Who would dictate weirdness and let it be truthful? I'm 28 and have been with women between 5 years younger to 6 years older. I had someone say to me that my gf looks like my older sister. I shrugged it off.
BLAH!
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reader, xLEAHx +, writes (28 January 2007):
 There's no problem there hun, 'AGE IS JUST A NUMBER' if you both share the same interests and get along, then why shouldn't it work..GO FOR IT! and good luck
Xleahx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2007): Nope, not at all. Carry on.
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reader, Tanyas247 +, writes (27 January 2007):
 Men and women have different schedules for maturity. Men take a little longer to decide what they want, while women tend to decide much earlier. This is a healthy age-gap if both people are happy.
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (27 January 2007):
 When I was 40, I dated a gorgeous 23 year old woman . . . for 3 years. Nobody called me weird . . . they just called me lucky. LOL.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (27 January 2007):
 Absolutely not. You're both adults. If you were 10 and he was 18 it might be different but you're both grown ups now. Go for it.
CD
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