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writes: i went on a date with a girl for dinner. we spent about 3hours together talkin. at the end her brother came to pick her up in a car so she had to go quickly so she just said bye. she texted me when she got home thanking me for the dinner as i paid. how do i know she liked me? how do i ask for another date? how do i tell her i love her? we've met only once before this date. also Valentine's day is coming but i want to meet her before aswell and on the day. i'm crazy about her but dunno if she likes me although she was happy with me. how do i find out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2007): Second date's a bit soon for the i love you words. get to know people first (r u on a deathwish!).
You cant really love someone after two dates no matter how many dates you barely know the girl!
Do yourself a favour and get to know people before you get attached or you will be taken for more rides than Disney Land has! You know you love someone when the feelings are returned, youve known them for more than 6 months roughly and that spark is there - that chemistry you can't deny!
You will know when and one day you will meet someone who blows your sox off and then you'll know what real love it!
Romance King!
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reader, melschatbox +, writes (27 January 2007):
Woah! You are moving way too fast. You are going to scare her off if you keep up with that pace. One word: CLINGY! You two had one date. You don't know that you love her....yet.
You are infatuated with her and maybe that could grow into love, but not yet. Give her a call in a couple of days, ask her out again. Talk more. WE sometimes confuse love with attention, attraction, and our fantasies of being with someone. Just take it slow...if she likes you, believe me you'll know it.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (27 January 2007):
DON'T tell her you love her. It's too soon. Ask her if she would like to go to dinner again before valentines day and then you can bring up her plans for the actual day and ask her if she wants to do something.
CD
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