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How come I worry about 'being alone for the rest of my life"? What's wrong with me?

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Question - (2 October 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 October 2006)
A male United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

I'm 19 and yet I'm worried about being alone for the rest of my life. What's wrong with me?!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2006):

I was never in a relationship until I was 20. It isn't as unusual or uncommon as you think.

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A female reader, Yuna~ Canada +, writes (2 October 2006):

Yuna~ agony auntI don't know if it will make you feel better. I met my bf (first boyfriend) when I was 22. I was in school and focused on getting good grades all along. After I graduated from university, I feel I should start looking. I have to admit I'm very picky about my bf, and I do not want to end up with someone just to date for fun. I want someone to be with me for a life time. It was a long process and it was very hard to accept not everyone like you either.

My friend had a boyfriend who she went out for 1 1/2 yrs. The bf cheated on her and it took her another 2 years to get over it, to have the courage to date again. What I learn is girl don't have a lot of years to waste. Unfortunately, girls fall in love too easily and too deeply too.

There's nothing wrong not having a bf when everyone you know does. I don't know if you're religious (I'm not), but I always believe there's someone who has been assigned as your other half before you were born. This person will just be here when it's time.

Good luck!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2006):

Being alone is the number one fear of the human race. That fact is all you need.

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