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writes: im falling for my cousins, cousin. he has just moved to the area recently and i see him whenever i go round my cousins house. the problem is, we had a little thing happen a while ago and now i think im falling for him. my cousin has already accused us of something goin on between us! i think he might like me too, but dosnt want to act on it as my cousin is the only family he has got. which i totally understand. my cousin is being so overprotective and would kill us if something was to happen. i think we could be happy together but we dont want to hurt anyones feelings as i think my cousin is afraid of getting pushed out. he wouldnt!! please help, ive been single for a long time and i think ive found the one for me, i just need to know what i can do about it without anyone getting hurt or falling out with each other?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010): i got wasted and got with my cousin's cousin and my mates are giving me jip but we're not blood related
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reader, cousins  +, writes (18 March 2010):
im in a similar situatoin as you. my only advice is to talk to them about it. maybe you can do small things like show each otherwhat you got and do smaller sexual things just to help teach each other. try not to do more then that for the sake of the family but if it is really love then you are perfically capable of pulling it off. good luck and please review my question for help.
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reader, Shivago  +, writes (20 January 2009):
Hi,
I am in exactly the same position but I am not sure if she likes me or not we flirt and hug and being together alone is like a date but we always avoid the subject because I think we both feel like its a boundary that we are scared to make the first move incase the other doesn't feel the same! If I was in your position were I knew exactly that we both loved each other, nothing would stop me from being with her because I believe our happiness would be permanent whereas my cousin's unhappiness about it will only be temporary. Its a case of weather you think this person is worth fighting for?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008): I lnow exactly what you mean.I'm 12 and my girlfriend is 12. We both share a cousin, but are not cousins ourselves. We love each other. However, I'm greatly confused because people are constantly teasing me trying to get me to believe that's my cousin as well. I'm tired of the pain. i think you should stick it to the man and go get your man
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2007): Well... anyone who likes their 1st cousin in a sexual way is a hillbilly...
In your case its your cousin's cousin so your not related by blood, so its all good!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2007): if he gets upset about your relationship and your happiness then he does not really care about you. i am married to my cousin;s cousin and he is my soul mate. you are not related in any way...i did research because of my situation. good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2007): hi i have had the same problem i really have big crush on my cousin he is 20 and i am 12 but don't really care he is always flirting with me so your not the only one i have a uncle that is married to his cousin and they are happy and they have 4 kids
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reader, baby gurl +, writes (5 October 2006):
 hey thats ok i think yall should try and ur cousin should just axcept and it might take sometime but she will probably just get over it don't worry if yall really like each other ur cousin will get over it soon enough.hope this helps.good luck!!!
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