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writes: hi im 16 and i told my boy mate that i fancied one of his mates for a joke lol. and my boy mate went up to his mate and said will you go out with her? and then he said no cos it was all sorta like a joke between us. then my boy mate asked another boy out for me just cos he likes teasing me cos he knows i would never go out with the people he asked lol. but then he said to the younger boy "why wont you go out with her? she has big tits". he said it infront of me and for some reason i was really offended by that. i didnt say anything but i was offended inside.my question is why do you think i was offended? i just dont really understand, i mean, isnt that kind of good to have have big breasts lol. but i just wanna ask why im offended and upset that he said that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2006): The way he said it, it seemed like it was the best thing about you. You both know it's not true but that is the way he made it seem. It was taken offense to because you felt like being pretty, funny, or smart wasnt the case, you just have big boobs. But dont be offended, its just all in joking and fun. And if he offends you again just tell him, your friends and im sure he doesn't mean to hurt your feelings.
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