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Does it hurt the first time a girls gets fingered?

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Question - (2 October 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 October 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

i have never done ne thing sexual im 16 and now i hav a BF so hopfully we will be soon! so... does it hert the first time girls get finger-ed?

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A male reader, realguy +, writes (8 October 2006):

Honestly, yes it can depending on how sensitive or insensitive he is to you that first time. A lot depends on how excited you are before he tries as well. You might want to get a small bottle of lube from any local super market or drug store and keep it handy in your purse as that will definitely help your 1st time. They even make a kind that heats up to the touch and will feel a lot less like a medical exam. Remember, don't go there until you really feel you are ready. Good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2006):

no it doesnt hurt, but you have to make sure that its really what you want and that you are not being presured into anything. if your sure its what you want then just relax and everything will be fine. x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2006):

Don't worry about it at all, it wont hurt. The only way he will hurt you is if hes extrememly rough. In that case just tell him to go easier. But most boys understand because they know what its like to be roughed around in their area... and most of them will cry like a baby! have fun!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2006):

Chances are it'll hurt, but don't let that put you off! I found it took me a while to relax and I really started to enjoy it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2006):

You are 16? Hm, well I have to say YES it hurts emensley!!! tell your boyfriend to keep his hands out lol

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