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male
reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2006):
Condom for oral? Thats going to be a deal breaker.
She asked whats "normal" (YMMV).... mouth and swallow is about 50% I'd guess. On breasts, face, hands, is roughly about the same.
Some girls do in mouth with a sort of discrete drool out into a towel when they are wipeing up (maybe 10% or so, I think- any other opinions). I guess thats fine.
DO NOT spit like a baseball player or hack like a cat, unless you cant help it.
So spit or swallow? False choice and I havent seen a ton of "spitting" out there.
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reader, harshbutfair  +, writes (2 October 2006):
 Only hookers use condoms for blowjobs (unless he has an STD... how well do you know this guy?)
If you pad him up before sucking him off he'll go limp and it will be like licking a wet weiner.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2006): Swallow if it tastes okay. Spit only if it truly grosses you out or tastes horribly bad. But a word of caution: Most guys will be hurt and embarrassed if you spit.
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female
reader, Astrid  +, writes (2 October 2006):
 I would ask him to wear a condom
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female
reader, melisnjustn05 +, writes (2 October 2006):
Do what you like if you want to spit it out go ahead. To be honest it depends on my mood what I want to do. Most of the time I spit it out. It's really not bad to swallow it though. So it's up to you
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male
reader, David Lewis +, writes (2 October 2006):
 Ah, that explains that then.
Some people don't spit or swallow. They prefer it on their breasts or elsewhere.
Just do whatever YOU feel comfortable with. You are supposed to enjoy it too.
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male
reader, harshbutfair +, writes (2 October 2006):
I eat seafood.
Mostly prawns, oysters and languistine.
The odd snapper.
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male
reader, David Lewis +, writes (2 October 2006):
It tastes like what you have been eating
(SO I HEAR TOO, BTW)
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female
reader, Hanna +, writes (2 October 2006):
 Just do what you feel comfortable with, every male enjoy's it when you swallow. It tastes vile(personal experence) but don't let anyone force you into doing something your not completely comfortable with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2006):
From a guy's perspective this is pretty easy- you dont have to swallow all the time, but by far the best situation is if you swallow sometimes (a not once a year on his birthday, more like twice a month). This will give you the highest 'girlfriend satisfaction rating'.
BTW, spitting undoes some of the good vibe you are creating by doing oral. You are better off letting him finish elsewhere on your body.
As long as he knows you arent 'dodging' him permenantly, he'll enjoy hitting new parts.
Good luck.
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reader, harshbutfair +, writes (2 October 2006):
Swallow.
It's less messy. It shows commitment.
It tastes like seafood.
(or so I hear)
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