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writes: After going through so much trouble about her cybersexing younger guys (she`s almost 42),i walk in unexpectidly and shes on a dating site.The search was seeking males 18-35.For 3 years,i`ve been accused,and been the backlash of insecurities.Her method of retaliation is to carry on like its about being fed false lies.No one told me anything.Iam of a similar age.Are women in their 40`s all likely to be like this?Also she thinks whatever she does should be without question.Whatever i do has to be explained.Her business has always been private.My business is hers,as we`re supposed to be a couple.Am i wasting my time with her?When we first started,she was seeing 2 married men.Within one month of that,she was sending me threatening texts because i went out and left my phone behind.What`s wrong with her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2006): Do you really want to be with a woman who does this kind of thing? Think on,if she gets up to this shit now, she probably wouldnt hesitate to drop her pants if she got an opportunity. I wonder ,should she have a son the same age as these,what she would have to say should a woman her age do this with her son? LOCK UP YOUR SONS !!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2006): I think she must have a very low self esteem.By the sound of things,i cant imagine she would accept this coming from you.She is unfaithful,end of story.If she`s cybersexed such young men willingly,even if it was 5 years before you knew her,common sense would tell you to run as fast as you can.I too wouldnt be suprised to learn her photos are being swapped by these youngsters.Hopefully,she wasnt pathetic enough to e-mail intimate photos to them.Hopefully,she doesnt have her own kids to embarrass too..Ive seen similar things happen before.She will probably blame you for her actions.He didnt pay me attention etc.It`s better if she dates someone much much younger.She`s too immature to date someone her own age.Dont get too dispondent because this will be her behaviour,no matter who she`s with.She`s definately hit the mid life crisis .Things will get worse as she reaches 50.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2006): this lady sounds very insincere and insecure.i notice no one seems to note that she also does married men.this is one possible reason why she`s insecure, because she doesnt want to feel the same pain she has caused others.i wouldnt be suprised to find out she shows herself to these "younger" males.dont be shocked to see something that looks familiar on a voyeur site.there`s names for people like that.
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reader, texan cutie +, writes (3 October 2006):
This lady is making a fool of herself.Let her carry on with it.If you stay around,you will feel inadequate and the rest of your life will be miserable.You will find better than this anywhere.If thats what it takes to attract attention,then she`s a slate short of a roof.This type of person offers nothing but insecurities.You will be walking down the mall,not knowing who`s sniggering at you.If you put up with this pathetic behaviour,then you must enjoy it.She must accept she`s not 21 anymore.You must accept she`s a bad memory and move on.Her willingness to cybersex shows her insincerity.You are wasting your time.Dont waste any more of your life.Time is the great healer.
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reader, scouse hannah +, writes (2 October 2006):
Whats wrong with her? If you stay,then the question is whats wrong with you? This woman obviously thinks she`s got a soft touch.Does she suffer from "he doesnt pay me attention"syndrome? If you stay in this, she will eventually ware you down and cause you embarrassment.Let her go & learn her own lessons.What would a man in his twenties want with a woman in her forties?a drunkern giggle, motherhood? I dare say she relates to teenagers better than grown adults.There`s one in every neighborhood.When she realises she`s the butt of all jokes (word spreads fast),do not take her back.God help her insecurities.If she`s insecure now,then i guess she`ll be undressing with the lights out,if she really gets her toyboy.It may hurt but keep well away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2006): The older women get, the nuttier they get. This has to be expected....But it seems like you guys had problems from the start- do you think aside from the problems that you have somethign solid in your relationship? Make a list of things you think you can build on.....
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (2 October 2006):
 What's wrong with her? She's going through a middle-age crisis. . . or she's just a psychopath. Either way, you've got your hands full. A friend of mine just got out of a relationship with what sounds like the same person. LOL. She was always accusing him of flirting, looking at other women, or some other indiscretion. In fact, she was hitting on 21 year olds, and doing everything she accused him of doing. . . and worse.
I told him the same thing I'll tell you. . . run. Run like the wind. And don't look back. You can thank me later.
Good luck.
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