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anonymous
writes: My girlfriend has just moved to manchester to start her new 6th form college. I live near Bristol and it takes 4 hours by train to get up there. We're both 16 nearly 17 and we both say we're in love with each other, and I know I am absolutely in love with her. we both are finding it hard to keep up a long distance relationship and we have been for a month now. I keep getting the feeling that shes falling out of love with me but I can't tell. We've both said that we want to spend the rest of our lives together but I sometimes get the feeling that shes drifting further and further away from me and that shes starting to feel like she cant tell me things any more. Please help me decide what to do?!
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reader, bumble bee +, writes (3 October 2006):
my bf is in the army so i know long distance relationships are so difficult. tell her that you feel you are drifting apart and see what she says, make it clear to her you want to work on your relationship because you love her dearly.
There are many different ways to communicate with each other; phone, e-mail, msn, letters. i love receiving letters from my bf, they are such a personal thing and it shows he has put effort in talking to me.
if you want this to work it will do.
HTH xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2006): Tell her exactly what you typed, see how she reacts and take it from there.
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