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writes: my best friend and I are both 16. Lately, things have been getting weird with us because she started hanging out with this other girl. My other friends and I notice that when this girl is around, my friend more or less ignores us or goes off with the other girl and leaves us. She also acts really dumb around her. We have always hung out as my best, me and other people and we would all hang together and get along, but with this new girl, my friend doesn't seem to want to be with us. My friends and I have kind of pointed this out in a nice way, but she doesn't seem to get it. What can I do? I like the other girl too, so it wouldn't matter if we ALL hung out together, its just this ditching me and my other friends that is annoying.Some of my other friends are more or less getting really mad and don't even want to hang with my best friend anymore because of the way she treats us. I just want it to get back to how it was before, we all hung out together. Help!
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (16 October 2006):
 There's nothing you can do darling but for doing as if you didn't care and don't stand up for her or the group will ditch you and you'll end up alone looking for new friends do not phone her again and act naturally if she goes and talks to you but do not pay too much attention to her ok?seriuos darling it hurts but the world is full of better people her hormones are affecting her brains
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reader, pica +, writes (15 October 2006):
It's what teenage girls do, sorry, I remember it well. You can't make things go back to how they were before. Your friend and the 'other girl' want to have their own group and you'll just have to let them - you've invited them and they didn't want to come. It sounds like bad feeling is developing, you could try to avoid that by leaving them to it and not getting drawn into bitchy conversations about them. You've still got other friends, do stuff with them.
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