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writes: My bf and I broke up last week. I want him back, but not yet as i need to be single and sort my head out a bit beforehand. We are sex buddies which I know is a bad idea in general as separating feelings from sex is really hard, especially when you're ex lovers like we are. I think he wants me back too as his life has been sorted out which was the reason we broke up. However, I think he also needs to be single for a while. Sometimes when we're together now he shows a lot more emotion than a sex buddy would, more like a lover. So if We're sex buddies for a short time, and I keep a watch on him to evaluate whether he is ready for a relationship again, we can get back together again and the time apart as just sex buddies will have been a significant period of time which contributed to our new relationship. Is this plan morally wrong on my man?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2006): I don't know about morally wrong, but you must have had a reason to break up.If you know you need time on your own to sort your head out, then being "sex buddies" isn't going to give you the opportunity to do that.Either you are together as bf/gf or you're not. If not, then don't even meet or have any contact, sexual or otherwise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2006): It sounds like you have the right idea. Stay single until you know what you really want. However, if you're both sex buddies and you both have feelings for one another, I think that is the definition of a relationship. If you want to stay single, you need to stop having the sex too, or you won't be able to start over. If you just announce "No more sex." Then he could say "i still have feelings for you" and there's your relationship again... Good luck.
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