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writes: well me and my gf had the house to ourselves for the first time. we are both young (im 15 shes 14 ) and she gave me head. which i came very quickly in,but anyway when i asked if she wanted me to lick her out at first she said it was best we didnt which was fair enough incase my familly came home, but then she changed her mind and said yeah, i could tell as soon as she took her trousers off that she didnt really want to go ahead with it, i tried to get her to relax but i knew it wasnt working so itold her that if she wasnt 100% sure about it then we wouldnt do it. The thing is afterwards she said she did want to do it but she was worried because it might look/taste weird which she is worried about because a guy friend of hers performed oral sex on a girl and felt sick, my gf has recieved oral sex from two other guys which im guesisng were in long term relationships although she said she didnt enjoy them and they had no effect on her. i want to make her happy and i think she does want to but she needs to relax, im going to talk to her about what she does or doesnt ant to do but how can i make her feel more relaxed about doing things like this? im not bothered if we dont/she doesnt want to do these things i just want to make her happy with whatever we are/ are not doing , so how do i make her feel more relaxed about it?btw i have never given / recieved oral sex until this point
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2006): Wow.... You are only 15! I would suggest getting a few years under ur belt bud. Don't end up like other kids in this world with kids at 14 and 15, I mean come on now how are you going to take care of a child? But, if you are going to do some crazy stuff be safe about it ok? Just slow don't and tell her to do the same, I gareentee she will be understanding and if shes not then she isn't the one for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2006): girls r realy shy bout dis shorght ov stuff just let her know you cair and want to make her happy she will wanna do it eventualy
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reader, smithapatel +, writes (15 October 2006):
how can u even think of such things at this age? grow up kid this is not the time for oral sex
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2006): she's probably just uneasy and worried what you think of her. tell her how much you enjoy seeing her get off, and that you want her to have as much pleasure as you can give her. ask her what she likes. sometimes girls get really self concious that guys dont like doing it. sometimes it helps that she takes a shower to get more comfortable. also, maybe turning off the lights and adding candles. let her know you find her beautiful and a turn on, no girl can resist a confident guy who is truly into her. brush her hair away from her eyes, be gentle and dont rush into things. she will enjoy it as long as she feels she can be herself around you. its up to you to let her know she can! good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2006): you are way too young to even be doing stuff like this. Enjoy being a teen and dont try to grow up so fast. Sex brings extra responsibilities that you and your gf are clearly not ready for. I urge you to regain your youth and dont pursue this issue. It will lead to some unwanted consequences.......
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