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writes: i need help... i'm good mates with me ex ... but i can feel myself wanting him back. we are good mates still...but he's been different with me recently.. hes knows what makes me laugh and smile so he's started using this to make me laugh. he flirts too and started calling me by his old pet name for me... i dont know what he wants.we split on a mutual thing about 2 months ago cos we it didnt feel the same after a while. he though i didnt like him anymore and told my mate when we split that i wasnt the girl for him anymore. but i dont know because the past few week's he's changed how he is with me...he's acting with me like he was just before we got together. he could just be being friendly because he wants to stay close.i have no idea what he wants, a friendship or a relationship...but it's making me confused because i was never 100% over him, and now i can feel myself slipping backwards! what do i do? do i just come out n ask him or what?
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reader, Toria +, writes (16 October 2006):
 Relationships break up for a reason, ex's are ex's for a reason maybe you should think about why he is an ex and think about whether you want to be in that same situation again???
If you really love him and can be sure things will be different this time then give it a go as you may always regret not taking that chance and always wonder what if.
Good luck :o)
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (16 October 2006):
 Sorry to say but you should move on as it was hard to break the 1st time it will get worse the second unless you really sure u want him back u should beware and consider why you broke up and know you still have men around who could trust and love yougood luck
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reader, Astrid +, writes (16 October 2006):
Sorry to say but you should move on as it was hard to break the 1st time it will get worse the second unless you really sure u want him back u should beware and consider why you broke up and know you still have men arounf who could trust and love yougood luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2006): You should just go with it. If you still like him, then you should flirt back with him. If you know he's flirting, then I'm sure he'll be able to see that you're flirting. You have to heal from the last time you guys broke up, and you must understand why you broke up the first time. Once you come to an agreement, there is always the possibility that you could get back together. Especially since you have a history together and you've been on good terms.
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reader, x.sum chik.x +, writes (16 October 2006):
normally best thing to do is move foward not back...
ive gone bakc in the past but then i gott to think wat made us break up? thats never going to change and were u happy wen u were with him... did u have more happy times then sad times.. if u think its worth it go for it... but i think the best thing to do is move on.. that way u can let new ppl into ur life and not dwell on the past
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